thank you snark, and great info...
the plan isnt for a LONG way in the distant future (itll be a while before i can afford my own place like i want) and between then and now the hope is to find someplace where i can actually go, start to learn to ride properly, the actual basis of horse care, grooming ect, and if i have the funds eventually get my own horse even before i have my own place with the eventual plan to move my horse onto my own property, at which point yes i would be adding another to the heard because im hoping id still be with my bf at this point and he actually enjoys horseback riding, though hes like me and only ridden trails a few times...so the idea would be to do it together.
vacation time isnt a big deal, i havent been on vacation since i moved to the us (7 yrs) with no plans to do so anywhere in the neer future, my dogs are too important and they are NEEDY so ive given vacation time up for them anyway, adding a couple horses into the mix isnt a big deal in terms of having no me time...i prefer it that way lol.
but yes the plan would be to learn more about horses (general AND specilized about whatever breeds i decide to look into) before even considering buying one...