you guys make it out like I'm some kind of villain deserving of some sort of plotted revenge. We were in a pool, we were rough-housing to begin with. I reached around to her shoulders and my arm slipped off the wet shoulders and smacked her in the back of the head. Sure I don't know my own strength, but in my defense the game we were playing was rough to begin with, its not like i decided it would be funny to see what happened it I blindsided her for fun. Jeesh