Furious At My Mother-In-Law

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savethebulliedbreeds

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What a weekend! First I should explain that my mother and father-in-law are psycho. Her more than him though.

We were looking after their dog this weekend while they were away. Sunday night we had to go to my family reunion so away we went. Then we decided that a bunch of the cousins should go to the fair. We went to the fair and then to the fireworks and then back to the fair for a bit. Then we took my cousins back to the farm and were home by 1:30AM. We get home and my husband says "someone broke into our house". I **** near crapped myself. The part where your key goes in was missing!!!!!!

So ok, we went in the house and there was 20 missed phone calls on Scott's cell phone (he didn't have it with him because it was dead and was on the charger). Then I checked the house phone and there were 8 messages on the machine. The first 5 were hangups and then all of a sudden there were two in a row that his mom left. She was screaming on our answering machine telling us that we better call them as soon as we get home because they want their dog back (not sure what the big deal with them picking her up in the morning was). She also went on to call both Scott and myself names and tell us that she was going to report us to the SPCA for being cruel to our animals because they were locked inside all day while we were in Medicine Hat at the f-ing races (her words not mine). We weren't even at the races in Medicine Hat....we were at the fair 5 blocks from home!!!!!!!!!! Then the last message was his dad saying that he broke into the house to take the dog back (again, I'm not sure what the rush was...they could have picked her up in the morning).

I was sooooo mad. I told my husband that if he didn't phone and say something to her that I would. I mean yeah, the dogs were in the house for a little longer than normal, but they had food, water, toys, blankets, and an air conditioner. Not exactly sure what the problem there was. If she calls the SPCA on me I am not sure what I will do to that woman. I have been putting up with crap like this from her for 10 years and I have had it!!!!

She even phoned the one day and I knew it was her so I didn't answer and there she was on my answering machine with me standing there listening as she was talking, leaving a message for Scott saying that I was "insert choice word here" and that he should leave me and that my parents are "insert choice word here". The reason that she did this is because she was mad at him for asking to borrow their truck for a few minutes to haul something because my parents were using theirs.

Wow what a rant....sorry.
 

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Good god.
I don't blame you for being angry! I would've blown a cork at the couple.
I wouldn't petsit for them again.

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I certainly wouldn't pet sit for them again. I would also call the local police and report that they broke into your house. That's uncalled for. I would've completely gone off the deep end if my ex's parents had ever done something like that.
 

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Someone broke into your house. Call the police! That is the logical thing to do when someone breaks into your house, isn't it? Even if you know who it is?
 

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OMG Jaclyn!!! That is.. beyond BELIEF!

I would call the police on them. Period. It doesn't matter if they are relatives.. they are psychotic people who ILLEGALLY BROKE INTO YOUR HOME. Save the messages--that's just more evidence..

*sigh* ((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) I'm sorry.. what a HORRIBLE day.. the good news is that they didn't hurt your dogs or lose them outside.
 

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That's so sickening. Call the police. They broke into your house.

I wouldn't petsit for them EVER again. -hugs- I feel so bad for you!

My former fiances parents were nutso too.
 
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I would have loved to call the police. Scott wouldn't let me. When he tried calling his mom to tell her off for the messages she left, his dad wouldn't let him talk to her. He left her a note yesterday for him to call her and she didn't. If he doesn't call her tonight she is going to get a blast from me. This woman is seriously nuts. She called my mom at work one day and told my mom not to let Scott in their house!!! She was mad at him for something. The other day she was telling me that she doesn't like Ryan's (Scott's brother's) girlfriend so she was going to type up a lett to him and sign it from some other guy saying that he had fun with (her) one evening. This woman is seriously disturbed and it is getting to me so much that I am not sure how much longer I can stay with Scott because she is making my life a living hell! Thanks for the hugs guys. I needed them!
 
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I'd save that answering machine tape. If they do follow through with the SPCA or something similar, you'd have a tape of admission on breaking and entering!
 

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Wow. I have no words. Were your dogs okay even though they broke into your home, removed the cylinder to your door lock and took their dog?

Absolutely mental.. Who needs their dog back asap THAT badly.. I'd so be calling the cops if she's nasty enough to call the spca.. That's just too far.. I really hope you can do something to get her to back out of your life. Wow.
 
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Call the cops and have a serious talk with your husband about his relationship with his mom, I would never put up with this type of crap from my own family much less my mother towards a woman I was married to.
 

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That is just ridiculous. It is sad that it is effecting your relationship with Scott so much. Hang in there.
 

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Wow. Is all I can manage.

This women is truley sick and def. needs a mental health evaluation.

I feel so sorry for both you and your husband, but he needs to take a stand and tell his mother how it is. This is insane. And now, illegal.

As others have said, file a report with the cops. Doesnt matter if they are family, they are now criminals.
 

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OK, this woman needs help. I guess she has nothing better to do with her life but to start trouble for her family.

I am glad your dogs are okay, but I do agree that it was dangerous going into the house not knowing if it was truly burglarized.
 

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Really the only answer is to get a USA road map book and map out the farthest point from where they people live. Then move there.
 

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Wow... that is just insane :yikes:

I wouldn't have anything to do with her if I were you... especially after that happened =/
 

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Really the only answer is to get a USA road map book and map out the farthest point from where they people live. Then move there.
But she lives in Canada...

Move to BC or Ontario (I do believe your in Alberta). Or better yet... move them to another province... maybe Newfoundland so that they have to take a boat before having a week of solid driving before they can see you :p
 
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Thanks everyone.

My mother in law is seriously psycho. I have honestly never met anyone like her in my life. Scott has to work with his mom and dad so yesterday afternoon he pretty much told her where to go and how to get there. He told her that if she ever did anything like that again, that he would go up to her house and drag her out by her hair (and she has big hair). Not that he would ever actually do that, but he said it to make sure that she knew he meant business. He told her to stop acting like she was 12 and grow up. He also told her she is not welcome to come to our house anymore.

THEN............Yesterday after work Scott's dad had to come over to our house to drop off our linoleum that was in his truck. I was letting the dogs out for a pee and guess who showed up.....his mother!!! She even had the nerve to come into our garage and b!tch about how ugly the lino we had picked out was. And complained because we got a pool.

What business is it of hers really???

Ugh the antics of my mother-in-law......seriously I could write a book.
 

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