Ever given a dog away?

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I've helped rehome a dog before. A guy I worked with was moving and had a beautiful cocker spaniel that had just followed him home one day. The dog was well behaved, obviously well trained. I feel bad for whoever lost him in the first place. Anyway he told me that if no one took Oreo and Buddy he was taking both dogs to the pound. Buddy was an older dog and very poorly trained, the dog nipped a lot and was very hyper. It broke my heart, but I knew I would not find a good home for him, so I could not take him. I did however take Oreo. I had him for 2 days, before I found a girl at work to take him. She had recently lost her cocker spaniel and it was a very good match.
My best friend once bought an ACD for a friend of ours (He had asked her to). He was getting a house in a month and wanted to take the dog then. Well when the time rolled around for him to take Zima his roommate decided he didn't want a dog in the house any more. My best friend was stuck with an extremely active dog in an apartment, and no time to care for it. Z ended up going to a great home in the country with lots of space for her to run around. It was a mistake on the part of all involved to get her in the first place, but at least she got a good home.
The only animal I have personally rehomed was a cat. My parents had a kid from their church living with them and he found a stray. My dad was going to take her to the pound, but the rule here is that if they do not have a rabies vaccine current for at least 90 days they will be put down. She was a very sweet cat, so I took her, I wanted a dog, but couldn't have one, and figured I would give her a try. $600 and a month later, I couldn't take it anymore. She had a urinary tract infection when I got her and apparently the meds made her permanently incontinent. She peed everywhere, and living in an apartment I couldn't have that. All the rescues had a waiting list to turn in a cat. It took me an additional 2 months and a 45 minute drive to find a rescue to take her. The woman who took her did rescues out of her home and emailed me to let me know she adjusted great and was happy.
 
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I have never had to & I dont think I could. The place that we adopted Bailey from 1 month ago which was a No-Kill Shelter told us that we can return the dog at any time no matter why even if it is 10 years from now & get another one in exchange, I guess if things don't work out or something. I thought to myself that I could never do that, even though Bailey has been pretty sick and on meds. since we adopted him, but he is getting better, but I could not think of "exchanging" him because he is part of the family now, even though we have spent a bit of money to get him healthy again. But I do understand that there are some very good reasons why you would have to rehome a dog, some very silly reasons but some are great reasons.
 

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shepluvr said:
Speaking from the other side...I have seen some really lame reasons for dogs being given up. "We love him dearly and he is a sweet well behaved dog, but he grew to big" Well...how big did you think that great dane was going to get??
We hate to give her up, but she catches birds. (this was a cat)
"We really love him and he is a wonderful dog, but he caught a rat the other day so we think he may turn on us." (no joke.)

"She is a wonderfully trained dog, housbroken and everything but she keeps getting pregnant. "
"I love him to death but he has worms."
"I think he needs a bigger yard", even though he is a 9 year old overweight lab that likes to sleep on the couch. yeah, and I am sure he will be much happier in the 3 x 8 cage he will be living in for now.
"I want him put to sleep because he has fleas."

Now multiply this by 50+ animals a day. :(
I honestly have no problem when circumstances arise and a pet has to be given up but sometimes some of the reasons are so lame you have to smile and bite your lip from what you really want to say. You get through the day by petting and talking sweetly to that now scared animal who has just seen its owner walk out the door and tell them,"its ok...you are better off here with us. We will find someone for you." Sometimes you do..sometimes you don't. :( Sorry for the downer...just another side.
I see this every day when I go in to the shelter I volunteer at. The most recent thing that stood out in my mind: we had a guy bring in a really sweet Rottweiler. he said he was giving him up because "he kept breaking the chain and running indoors". :( I can't imagine giving up a dog just because it wanted to be with me. A lot of these dogs are better off without their pathetic owners, if you ask me.
 

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We had to one time. My wife was working as a vet tech and had a client with a real nice GSD. She told the client if they EVER had to give that dog up to let her know. Not long after, the client was moving to FL with her boyfriend and he wouldn't let her bring the GSD, so we took him in. The problem was we lived in a small townhouse and already had Midnite, our 60lb mix. We kept the GSD for probably close to a year, but realized that with our tiny yard (maybe 20x20') and small house, and another fairly large dog, it wasn't fair to him to live in those conditions. We exercised him regularly and stuff but he was housebound all day while we worked. We found him another home thru the vet, some people had come on to put their GSD down as it was old and suffering, and said they wanted another, so we asked if they wanted ours. He got a great home in a big house with a big yard and a 10 year old boy companion. It was hard to do but really was better for the dog in the long run.
 

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DanL said:
A lot of these dogs are better off without their pathetic owners, if you ask me.
Amen.

budgetsdad said:
Anyone that says that should be PTS.
yeah...reasons like this is why there is a clause in the euthanasia rules that if the staff see fit we can evaluate and rehome the dog. This was a handsome red doberman that had nothing wrong with him other than the fact he had fleas and mild flea allergy. We treated him for his fleas and he found a lovely home.
 

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RD said:
he kept breaking the chain and running indoors".
Shame on you!!! BAD DOG!! How dare you want to be with me!! Don't you know you are suppose to be happy chained in the yard all the time with no attention!! HHMMMPPFF!:rolleyes:

Some people are so stupid.
 

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Yes, i have.. I had to give back a golden puppy after i realized it was not the right time in my life for another one.. :(
I had him only for one day, and he was wonderful.. I was so so sad. The breeder I got him from was wonderful tho, she was very understanding and happily took him back and refunded me. She also called to tell me a nice doctor had adopted him and he would have a big acrege to live on.

And I also had to give back a dog I tried to take over for a friend because I discovered I am allergic to wire-haired dogs. He was a wire terrior.. he got another home through a friend.

Both times I was really upset and felt like a horrible person..

I felt really awful :( not a fun situation..
 

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