Eh. I'm 26, have never moved out of my parents home, and I don't feel I'm entitled to anything. People want to make a big deal about it, but since there are lots of people who lost their jobs, adults living with their parents are incredibly common these days. When one of my co-workers broke up with her boyfriend, she decided instead of going out and getting her own apartment, she would move back in with her mom. She figured out with the money she'd be saving on rent just in one year, she could completely pay off one of her student loans - so that's what she did.
I don't really think it's a bad thing for parents to be kind enough to let their adult children stay with them to save money. I think the problem is when they are staying there so they can blow money frivolously. But you can't make a generalization that everybody doing such-and-such is doing it so they can blow all their money on DVDs and booze and video games or whatever (which, yes, I do know plenty of people who live with their parents because they would rather waste their money on whatever "toys" they feel like they should have.)
My dad taught me from the get-go that if you want something, you have to work to get it, and sometimes you have to sacrifice other things. I was 12 and asked for a Nintendo 64 for my birthday. He took a $50 bill out of his wallet, and said "I'm putting this in an envelope for you. Get the other $150 yourself, and I'll take you to the store to buy it." So that's what I did. And then I decided I wanted a nicer TV to play my games on (I was using my parent's old TV from the 70's, LOL.) so I worked and saved to get the money for that too. I had to decide if I wanted to spend the money I got doing chores on a smaller toy or if I wanted to put it in that envelope and save it for something bigger. I've never bought anything I couldn't afford. I never put stuff on a credit card and made payments on it - I put it on the card and then paid the bill in full. My car was paid for in cash that I worked my ass off for (to say nothing of the hard work I put into actually FINDING a great, safe, affordable car. And it is a **** fine car if I do say so myself.)
Instant gratification is not something I've ever been big on either and that's a big problem for a lot of people. I had a friend who went to a store and ordered a computer, but then, instead of waiting the two weeks to get it, he decided instead to turn around and spend several hundred dollars more to get another one instead just because he wanted it NOW NOW NOW and just "couldn't" wait. I think we all know people like that. =P
But you know, whatever. For some people, they would rather be broke all the time and constantly have to worry about making their rent than, you know, stop going out to eat or going to the bars all the time, or not go buy the latest video game, or not buy a new pair of shoe or a DVD or this or that. If that's what they want to do, fine... that's their choice. And when they whine about it, I'll just roll my eyes.
Which reminds me, the same co-worker that moved into her mom's house to pay off one of her student loans also calculated how much she spent every month on eating out and has stopped eating out almost entirely so she can pay off her car loan... while another co-worker (who is older and constantly makes snide remarks to us because we're so obviously stupid just because we're younger than her) just a few weeks ago came back from going out to lunch and announces, as though she's PROUD of it, "I only have $6 until payday!" And how much did you just spend on lunch, you nitwit? But again... that's her choice. It's her money, her life... not my problem, and not MY bank account.