When I got my dog as a 6 month old, he had some severe shyness issues, and although (a year later) he is doing wonderfully he does have some minor issues.
One of his quirks is that he is very selective about who he lets touch him. Over time he has continued to let more and more of my friends and family into his circle and I am thrilled by this, but some people continue to make rude (and disturbing) comments towards him.
One example, we were at a cottage on the weekend and someone complimented him on being an obedient dog, and then someone else chimed in “that dog is not obedient, he won’t even let me touch himâ€.
So I guess this is a bit of a rant. Why is it that people think that they have a “right†to touch/crowd animals and pets. I have witnessed an alarming amount of grabbing at him, or trying to corner him to hold him etc when these people think I’m not looking. These people are actually really bothered by the fact that this dog does not "accept" them – and they want to use force to try and make him “get over itâ€, despite my tireless efforts to teach them otherwise. They seem obsessed with the notion that he is weird or a bad dog because he doesn’t befriend every single person he meets. And they are deeply offended that he will cuddle with person A, but not let person B touch him.
Is there anyone else out there, who feels this way? Why do people take it SO personally?
One of his quirks is that he is very selective about who he lets touch him. Over time he has continued to let more and more of my friends and family into his circle and I am thrilled by this, but some people continue to make rude (and disturbing) comments towards him.
One example, we were at a cottage on the weekend and someone complimented him on being an obedient dog, and then someone else chimed in “that dog is not obedient, he won’t even let me touch himâ€.
So I guess this is a bit of a rant. Why is it that people think that they have a “right†to touch/crowd animals and pets. I have witnessed an alarming amount of grabbing at him, or trying to corner him to hold him etc when these people think I’m not looking. These people are actually really bothered by the fact that this dog does not "accept" them – and they want to use force to try and make him “get over itâ€, despite my tireless efforts to teach them otherwise. They seem obsessed with the notion that he is weird or a bad dog because he doesn’t befriend every single person he meets. And they are deeply offended that he will cuddle with person A, but not let person B touch him.
Is there anyone else out there, who feels this way? Why do people take it SO personally?