Doberman & Kids
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If it were I and I was a novice in the area, I would take the time to go to differant breeders, trainers that own a Dob. Why, well not everyone should own a Dob. Check out Temperments, sit and just talk to the breeder if they are a qualified breeder they would never lead your friend astray. Now if it were a back yard breeder then he/she could care less. They just want your money.
Yes they are a very impressive breed, they hold all aspects beauty and dominance. So if I were the breeder, I would take them time to give you a few tips as to male or female. To be honest with you I personally suggest a female over and above a male Dob for a family. Females tend to take on the nuturing aspect of the game. Where as a male is alouf and all about himself.
Now this is not each and every male Dob. Although generally the male Dob attempts to dominate the situation no matter what.
Yes they are a very impressive breed, they hold all aspects beauty and dominance. So if I were the breeder, I would take them time to give you a few tips as to male or female. To be honest with you I personally suggest a female over and above a male Dob for a family. Females tend to take on the nuturing aspect of the game. Where as a male is alouf and all about himself.
Now this is not each and every male Dob. Although generally the male Dob attempts to dominate the situation no matter what.
No he never had a Dobe before but he's buying a dobby from a guy who's been breeding dobberman for the last 18 years. He's not a backyard breeder. That guy puts a lot in his dobers and trains them too till he sells. These dobes are pedigreed and so my friend is concerned if the 3 1/2 month old dobe puppy would be safe and good with his kids.
The parents will really have to keep their eyes on the kids !! AND REALLY work with the pup !! No rough housing ... no tug of wars .... no games that involve growling ( except with other pups ). And check food aggression from day one. There are many breeds I would have loved .... but knowing we wanted a family , I stayed with Goldens , which I knew.
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Dobermans in the right hands make wonderful family pets, and great companions for a child. I have a feeling your friend doesn't have a clue what he's getting in to. I have a Doberman and know plenty others as my friend has been breeding them for years. They are wonderful dogs, but not for somebody who hasn't spent a whole lot of time with challenging breeds. A Doberman nrequires somebody who has dealt with dogs before and knows how to keep up with an energetic, athletic, protective, etc. breed such as the Doberman. If your friend truly is getting his dog from an excellent breeder he wouldn't be having to ask anyone but his breeder whether the breed in general gets along well with children. If the breeder is any good, he will tell him how much and how often he should be feeding his dog and he should already know what sort of grooming is involved in this breed. I have my doubts that your friend has actually found a great breeder, as (especially in this breed) they are few and far between. Of course, this is all just my opinion.
No he has really found a great breeder who isn't here to make money. He went and saw about a dozen doberman and came home heart broken cause he didn't like the way they were kept. He was then told by his friend Kaz who for one has devoted life for dogs and has kept almost every breed possible that a certian breeder just breeds doberman for the last 18 years and has quality trained puppies raised by himself.
When my friend visited he came to know that the doberman was extremely healthy and trained and happy. The breeder spend a whole **** lot on the dog just unlike other breeders. So what u say now? The above information is correct and my friend is willing to take him for 2 miles walk and training every day so the concern remains for children. I assume a puppy of this calibre should become an awesome companion with children.
When my friend visited he came to know that the doberman was extremely healthy and trained and happy. The breeder spend a whole **** lot on the dog just unlike other breeders. So what u say now? The above information is correct and my friend is willing to take him for 2 miles walk and training every day so the concern remains for children. I assume a puppy of this calibre should become an awesome companion with children.
so what does it matter what we think if you actually dont want to hear any differing opinions? why do we even bother wasting our breath?
nothing you have said makes me think this is a responsible breeder - i cannot think of someone that would place a male dobe pup in a novice home that has two kids under the age of 4.
nothing you have said makes me think this is a responsible breeder - i cannot think of someone that would place a male dobe pup in a novice home that has two kids under the age of 4.
This is so true.
I can't imagine what this breeder could possibly be thinking sending a male dobie pup home with to an inexperienced home with small children.
While it CAN work, the risk of problems for this pup and family are too many to justify placing his pup in this home.
I just spent two hours helping a novice family with a tiny 10 week old Havanese puppy that they're "having problems" with...and their kids are 10, 9, and 7. Just because he has his heart set on a dobie doesn't mean it's the right "first" dog for his family.
I can't imagine what this breeder could possibly be thinking sending a male dobie pup home with to an inexperienced home with small children.
While it CAN work, the risk of problems for this pup and family are too many to justify placing his pup in this home.I just spent two hours helping a novice family with a tiny 10 week old Havanese puppy that they're "having problems" with...and their kids are 10, 9, and 7. Just because he has his heart set on a dobie doesn't mean it's the right "first" dog for his family.
Since you are already getting the puppy, my best advice is to SOCIALIZE like crazy, with both adults, children and other dogs... and I think this can make a big difference in the temperament of dogs who are often feared by the public for their reputations -- Dobermans, pit bulls, rottweilers, wolfdogs, etc. Let many people play with, pet, cuddle, and love the puppy. Let the puppy play with other well-trained dogs who are tolerant of puppies, this may help him learn to not be aggressive toward other dogs, and he might even imitate and learn from the behavior of the older dog. NEVER keep him on a chain or leave him alone for long periods of time. Ideally someone should be at home to watch him practically all the time. I know this is not always possible, but being lonely and bored leads to all sorts of problems, especially for a large breed dog. Also have him fixed as soon as possible. Obedience classes will help A LOT if you can afford them!