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Write a letter here to anyone you like, in anyway that you like =)

Dear DH (Previous trainer to myself and Katalin),

Positive reinforcement is certainly a good method of canine training - but a balanced approach with positive behavior heavily rewarded and encouraged and bad behavior corrected in such a manner that it will be less likely to occur in the future is the route I think I need to take with my dog. NONE of the corrective manners are scary, painful, nasty, or inhumane - they are however to aid training, make communication to my dog clear and black/white, and to help her understand what is acceptable/what isn't.

By your own admittance you have not worked with, well, let's call them the more "advanced"/independent breeds. Kuvasz are not typically wired dogs who's worlds revolve around their handlers - they are easily distracted, aloof, highly independent and need consistent and positive feedback and stimulation from their people in order for said Kuvasz to actually give a **** about them. We are working on that and making good progress - I'd highly suggest you to read up on breeds you haven't worked with before if you get calls from people wanting help with them - your methods I followed through with - they did NOT curb the unwanted behavior I had mentioned to you or really helped in any other way. They might have accidentally encouraged some rather unpleasant things actually.

Anyways, no hard feelings and you really didn't have to sound like you just heard that Santa Claus had an aneurysm when I told you yesterday that your "services were no longer required". I still have a feeling that when you said that you'd "miss Katalin" - that "Katalin" actually meant the $160 class attendance fee.

Stephy

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Dear Grandfather's caretaker,

You really need to shape up. You need to start treating him, his home, and his relatives with ALOT more respect. I have NO tolerance for you and hope that the next time I run into you that I'm in a reasonable mood and that you have stopped pissing around.

Ms Lau

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Dear Luck,

Please - get better. Like, right now. Please

Thanks,
Me
 

Red.Apricot

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Dear AC Man,

Thank you for coming by to look at the AC at work. I really appreciate it, and the noise being gone is fabulous. I understand you're understaffed and have a lot to do.

That said, the problem is still there. I know it sounds like whining to say I can't work when it's 90 in the room, but the thermostat and thermometer are by the door, where it's cooler, and I'm in the other corner, so it's actually hotter. Please come in the afternoon so you can believe me/us. I don't want to go to work because everyone is hot and grumpy and moving slow.

Thanks,
Me.



Dear self:

Get up, take a shower, go to work.

Finish your essay, send in your application.

Study for the test on Saturday.

Man up!
Love,
you.
 

BeachBum

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Dear New Kitteh (Mouse)

Stop it!

The dog is not your personal punching bag/hobby horse/jungle gym. He has feelings too and your sharp little teeth and nails hurt like a SOB, I have the scars to prove it.

You will spend far less time locked in the enclosed porch if you would just give him a break, even just couple of minutes would be nice.

Thank you

Cranky Food Lady
 
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Dear Grandfather,

I'm sorry to see you in such a state. I don't know how many years you have left but I wish that they be healthy, peaceful, conflict free ones.

You are whom you are and I respect that fact. I'm sorry but I really can't say I agree with alot of your decisions, ideals and notions of life and how you want me to live life. I can't reunited with your relatives/family - I just can't deal with them nor they me. So please don't say it's all on me. Life is funny that way - you should realize that, or at least try.

Fate had something different in mind for us I suppose - you got me for some reason and I got you for some reason too. I'm sorry if I caused you pain or disappointment, but yeah...fate and the universe had their plans I guess. Who are we to question or interfere with it?

Please keep well as you can and focus on the things with the most meaning now,
Love,
Stephy
 
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Mom:

Stop telling Bimmer, "you're such a good boy, Katy's gone, I guess you're next."

In one breath you brag about how the dogs understand you when you talk to them, in the next you turn around and say **** like that. I understand you do it to hurt me, but stop it. Leave them out of it.

I'm going to remember this when you're unable to take care of yourself you know.

Besides, you might well be next.
 

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