pop up advertising zoloft..just now..isn't that a hoot..my stepdaughter who lived with me when her youngest was 18 months..went on to marry and have 9 children..a awesome house of no clutter..i kid you not.;home schooled the twins for their early grades..she told me once..it got so much easier when i just let it all go and stopped worrying..i just do what is in front of me and that is it. Why is it written in our dna that we have to be perfect in ourselves, as a parent, as a homekeeper, as a community member, that when we go to bed we cant be satisfied with our efforts, only awares of or failings! I can add my art child that gets neglected on a daily basis..if i don't do something in that direction daily i feel extreme guilt..that i am not living up to my potential as an artist on top of mother, daughter, taxi, homekeeper, book keeper, grounds keeper, and i don't have a keeper for me! I just finished a book called Amy and Isabelle..by elizabeth Strout..moderate novel, but an interesting relative part..you can only eat an elephant one bite at a time..i have sobbed in front of docs too..doc you got to make me well, i am going to lose my JOB..what will we DO!
I didn't get well, i did lose the job, then my home, and it has been a long climb back up and i am still working on it..one bite at a time to eat an elephant is pretty accurate..go softly into the world..what is the poem? Compare yourself not to others for their will always be greater and lesser than yourself..i know someone knows what i am talking about..i use to recite it to my kids all the time. Books are my salvation sometimes..i read alot thanks to the fact my gradeschool taught speed reading (they did metric math thinking we would switch so they really screwed me up there) but the reading helps me keep things in perspective..when you have a health issue..no one can really know how you feel..it is impossible for them to see your pain unless you wear it on the outside..so they forget that it is harder for you than it is for them. I tell my family "I am not 100 percent today.." and it just doesn't registar. Mom can you..starts almost at the end of my sentence..hugs my love...one bite at a time for the elephant of life!