They have real diapers that LOOK like they are supposed to work likr pampers etc but the tapes are weird. Then they have pull on ones that sanitary pads can be placed on. I will have to try and buy one of those tomorrow. The diapers are really difficult.
What I've found works nicely is a pair of boys underwear with a feminine pad in the crotch of it. You turn them around backwards so their tail can go through the pee-pee hole...my neighbors kid said it looked ghetto, I say it looks less ghetto than having blood all over my house.