I'm a very NON confrontational person. It's very rare for me to express how I am feeling or discuss issues in person. I am MUCH better at doing them via text, or email.
That being said. My cousin, who is a year older than me, and male, lives with me. He moved in with me a year ago, and at that time I had a 3rd roommate as well. We agreed that since there were 3 of us, and he was on unemployment, $350 was reasonable.
Now that was all inclusive. To give you a breakdown:
Rent is $1050
Electric before summer was $100, its approaching $250 now (and he likes it COLD in the house.)
Water is $50 (with or without him. not a big deal)
Internet is $55 (He has a computer and X-Box live)
Dish network satellite TV is $100 (He records shows. I do not. I only use the tv to fall asleep and i dont need it.)
Well, he got a job in March, and I've been meaning to discuss increasing his rent for a month or two now. So I talked to my parents, and they said texting him would not be a bad way to go about it.
And I am DREADING the response.
Like I can't even bring myself to tell him to stop eating the food that I buy. I just hide it in my room. He uses my laundry soap? I hide it in his room.
And before you ask, YES his mother did everything for him up until the day he moved out. The boy cannot load a dishwasher to save his life. he also keeps his room and bathroom a disgusting mess. You cant see yourself in the mirror, and you can find plates under his bed.
Would you put up with this when you're trying to get YOUR life on track? or would you kick him out?
That being said. My cousin, who is a year older than me, and male, lives with me. He moved in with me a year ago, and at that time I had a 3rd roommate as well. We agreed that since there were 3 of us, and he was on unemployment, $350 was reasonable.
Now that was all inclusive. To give you a breakdown:
Rent is $1050
Electric before summer was $100, its approaching $250 now (and he likes it COLD in the house.)
Water is $50 (with or without him. not a big deal)
Internet is $55 (He has a computer and X-Box live)
Dish network satellite TV is $100 (He records shows. I do not. I only use the tv to fall asleep and i dont need it.)
Well, he got a job in March, and I've been meaning to discuss increasing his rent for a month or two now. So I talked to my parents, and they said texting him would not be a bad way to go about it.
Hey Tom, I think I'm gonna have to cancel dish. I really just cant afford it. Also, I know we originally agreed on $350 a month back when we had matt and you were unemployed. realistically, $500 is more appropriate, but I think $450 is reasonable. Especially with the increase in electric in the summer.
Like I can't even bring myself to tell him to stop eating the food that I buy. I just hide it in my room. He uses my laundry soap? I hide it in his room.
And before you ask, YES his mother did everything for him up until the day he moved out. The boy cannot load a dishwasher to save his life. he also keeps his room and bathroom a disgusting mess. You cant see yourself in the mirror, and you can find plates under his bed.
Would you put up with this when you're trying to get YOUR life on track? or would you kick him out?