Cancer

[Maxy24]

Yesterday Max was diagnosed with cancer. It is in his Kidneys and spleen. The vet gave us a weeks worth of medicine, an anti inflamitory and a pain killer. Today we have decided if he is no better by Monday we have to put him to sleep. He is not able to walk well and limps or his back legs give out. If he does get better we will keep him on the mads until he dies. He is ten years old and we got him when I was only four. He has practically raised me and he is the only dog we have ever had. I can't imagine life without him and this doesn't even feel real, I wish he would just get better but I know that will never happen. Cancer is a horrible disease and Tomorrow is my birthday, great present huh. I love him so much and he does not deserve this torture, I don't know if I should go when they put him down or not, What do you all think?

 

[Saje]

That is entirely up to you. I think most people go and comfort their dogs at the last minute. I haven't had to put a dog down yet but i did with my horse (first horse - loved her a lot) and I couldn't be there for it. I was too much of a mess. We had a great vet and my dad was there. If you want to be there then definitely go. It'll be hard but you might feel better if you are able to comfort max.

So sorry you have to go through this!!! (((hugs)))

 

[Lizmo]

Oh Max! I am so sorry! ((((((((((((((((((((( Hugs ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I think you should go with him and make it as BEST a time as possible, he is going to want you to be there with him, it will make it easier on him, knowing you are there and he has nothing to worry about..*sniff sniff*

I hope your Birthday is good! My birthday is tomorrow too.

 

[~Jessie~]

I am so sorry I would go with him as well... when we put our 10 year old dalmatian to sleep (I had her since I was 8), I was in the room while we put her to sleep. I am so glad that I was there with her, because I was able to comfort her.

 

[Saje]

Oh I missed the part where tomorrow is your birthday. THat's awful. The horse I was telling you about had to be put to sleep the day before my birthday. It was the worst ever! I wish I could help. After it's all over don't feel like you have to be a stranger. A lot of people here have been through this and nobody minds if you want to come and talk about it, share memories or just be a part of the forum. (((hugs)))

 

[dr2little]

I'm so sorry... (((((((hugs))))))) No one can tell you what you should do but I know for myself I have always been with my fur family while they passed and have never regretted it. I think that everything is easier for them when the ones that they love are with them..even passing over the bridge.
I would try to make it as pleasant an experience as possible. If he still has an appetite, you can bring in his absolute favorite food for him to eat. I know that my Vet will give me an oral sedative for my dog (should the need arise) to avoid any unnecessary stress.
I can only imagine how difficult this is for you, this is an awful way to spend a birthday...more ((((((((hugs))))))))

 

[Doberluv]

Oh Maxy...I am so terribly sorry. This has got to be one of the hardest things in life. We grow so attached to our friends and it's just so painful to have to say, "good-bye." My heart aches for you because I know too well how it feels, having gone through it too many times. All I can say is that it does ease up after some time. I've always gone with my dogs so I could be there for them in the vet's office where they may be a little stressed. I just wanted to say good-bye right at the end since they were so attached to me. But you need to do what you feel best.

My thoughts go with you. And when you feel like it, share some happier memories. Those are what keep you going.

(((Hugs))) This is definitely not a very happy time for your birthday. I'm so sorry.

 

[juliefurry]

I'm so sorry. That is what happened to our Shelby when we took her to be put down. I don't think anyone should tell you if you should be with poor Max when you go to put him down or not though. That has to be your choice. I was there for our dog and I don't regret it and I think if I hadn't been there than would have regretted not being with her to hold her and talk to her one more time. I think it comforted her too.

 

[bubbatd]

This is so hard for you !!!!! My thoughts and (( Hugs )) are with you . It took a lot for me to muster up courage .... but once I saw how calm and quick it was , I could handle it . Do what is in your heart . May Maxy's last days be happy ones for you both .

 

[Maxy24]

max can't walk at all now. He now must soil himself on the floor. he did not eat or drink anything yesterday. D o you think i should use a syringe without the needle to force him to drink? we are going to put him down today instead and our vet is not open, so we have to bring him some where else. Thanks for all your support.

 

[atldoglover]

I am so sorry

I have not yet had to put down a dog, but very recently my cockapoo died at three and a half years old. I was not there when she passed, because obviously it was not a planned event. Making a decision about anything's life is very hard, but I am sure that you will make the right decision. My thoughts are with you. Again, I am sorry.

 

[bubbatd]

I'm thinking of you ......................((( Hugs ))) .....fly free Maxy !

 

[Maxy24]

He is gone now, we are going to bury him in the yard. My dad is a carpenter so he is making a casket and my uncle works for the town so he can use a machine to dig a whole in the ground. I like to garden so I will plant all around it this spring. My uncle will also arrange for a stone to be carved for him. Today was literally the worst day of my life, and I can never imagine it will get better, although I know it will. It was so hard, I held his head in my hands and felt it go limp and his eyes became lifeless. He went brain dead but his heart would not stop so they went to get a second injection but he died right before they administered it. I hate today.

 

[Debi]

oh hon, I am sooooo sorry for your loss. I feel your hurt, and I send you ((HUGS)). your sweet pup had a good life with you, and you did everything you could. my heart breaks for your sadness.

 

[Kase]

Oh I'm so very sorry for your loss, it must be so hard . You did what was best for him ((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))).

 

[Doberluv]

A-w-w-w...I am so sad for you. I know this is the worst day you could possibly have. It will get better. I think that's a lovely idea to make a garden for him. It will help you too. So very sorry...

 

[Saje]

I'm so sorry! (((hugs))) He had a good life and new he was loved.

 

[Baxter'smybaby]

I am so sorry--but now he is free from the pain he had. remember the good times you had with him, and feel good about giving him such a good life.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

I am so sorry.

 

[bubbatd]

My heart goes out to you .........RIP dear Moxy . Your life meant so much to those who loved you .