I actually think it is for the better.
I am sick of being a follower of the states.
It's not about being leader or follower. It's about the cost of trade.
I admit, I like parity much better than our all-time low of $0.62 US, However:
If it cost a US firm $85.00 US to buy $100.00 CDN of forestry product when the Loonie was at $0.85 US, their cost has now gone up 15-18% just based on the exchange rate. In other words, the US forest products become more competative and the CDN products become too expensive. The only way that would change is if the Canadian business reduced their cost by 15%, but they can't because no one else in Canada is going to drop their prices for goods/services or basic nessessities to reflect what's more in line with US costs now, based on the higher value of the Loonie.
Alternatively, if a Canadian company has been using steel from hamilton, it may curb it's use of that steel and buy from an American company because the American product is now 15% less than it was in January.
Add to that, the fact that a number of things already cost more in Canada than they do in the US and suddenly the tourism industry suffers.
Lastly, with the very attractive prices being found south of the border and the dollar now at parity, Canadian business will suffer a hit to some degree from Canadian consumers because they can order goods in the states at (in some cases) 40% less than the exact same product in Canada.
My personal example is a lens I'm looking at getting. In the US it costs $830. In Canada, the exact same lens costs between $1220 and $1300. With the dollar at parity, that US price is irresistable and the Canadian business looses out. When the Loonie was at $0.85 US, the American retailer wasn't quite as attractive. And $400.00 extra to support a Candian company is a bit more of a pill than I'm willing to swallow when I'm working a p/t job on top of my day job to save up for this lens.
In spite of the better value of our dollar, notice how the cost of things hasn't been reduced at all?
Parity is all well and good in theory, but there's some major drawbacks to it. Because our economies are tied so closely together and we've done nothing to change that over the course of the last 30 years, we end up suffering for their economic misery as well until they snap out of it or we find different trading partners to deal with who aren't so reliant on the green-back.