My mom went to see it with one of her gay guy friends and she really liked it. I have heard about the whole "gay" thing too, but that wouldn't stop me from seeing it. Some of my best friends are gay.
I made the mistake (a few times) calling it "bare back mountain," ....seriously. No pun intended, but a slip of the tongue. But I have heard really good things and will watch it when it comes out on dvd.
Amy