So I made a GIANT list, I'll drop some when you answer my shyness question. Make sure you are honest with yourself about energy levels you want. Remember that when you say, have a child, you need to think about whether or not the dog would get enough exercise and stimulation. Here are some from my list, these are the ones that mention a high energy level/good hiking partner/agility dog, etc. in their description. Many dogs descriptions don't though, even though they very well may be. I also know nothing about NC so I don't know how close/far some of these guys are from you.
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Terrier | Asheboro, NC | Tooty
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Australian Cattle Dog (Blue Heeler) | Siler City, NC | Benny
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Jack Russell Terrier | Thomasville, NC | Darcy
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Jack Russell Terrier (Parson Russell Terrier) | High Point, NC | Chandler
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Terrier | Pittsboro, NC | Billy
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Yorkshire Terrier Yorkie | Southern Pines, NC | PoGo
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Papillon | Mocksville, NC | Jackson
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Border Collie | Winston-Salem, NC | Page
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Labrador Retriever | Danbury, NC | Twinkles
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Black Labrador Retriever | Eden, NC | Chloe (might be too big, could b banned)
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Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Terrier | Asheboro, NC | Tooty
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Australian Cattle Dog (Blue Heeler) | Siler City, NC | Benny
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Jack Russell Terrier | Thomasville, NC | Darcy
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Jack Russell Terrier (Parson Russell Terrier) | High Point, NC | Chandler
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Terrier | Pittsboro, NC | Billy
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Yorkshire Terrier Yorkie | Southern Pines, NC | PoGo
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Papillon | Mocksville, NC | Jackson
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Border Collie | Winston-Salem, NC | Page
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Labrador Retriever | Danbury, NC | Twinkles
Petfinder Adoptable Dog | Black Labrador Retriever | Eden, NC | Chloe (might be too big, could b banned)
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