You can tell with threads like this who has actually had to struggle in their life and who hasn't.
Definitely not true.
There is a difference in those whose struggle who are content to accept government assistance, and there are those of us who struggle who work really hard to be RESPONSIBLE for ourselves and our families, who's husbands come home from work, to work some more just to make sure all the bills are paid and food is on the table, and to make sure the kids have something to open on Christmas, birthdays, and clothes for school. I grew up in a house where my Dad just did that, and when it is necessary, my husband does it too.
The reason we don't agree with a lot of gov't assistance, is because we struggle and work hard to be responsible for the family that we CHOSE to have. I see people who fully intend on using medicaid and WIC PLAN to have babies. If I knew I was going to NEED WIC to feed my baby, then I wouldn't have one. Or planning(or not preventing) to have a family while using food stamps. I would work my butt off to save up money first because MY child = MY responsibility.
It should be for people in positions like Miakoda where her husband lost his job. Not for people who currently have jobs who just want help feeding their babies, so they can go on buying whatever entertainment and such that they want. And believe I know A LOT of people, especially who used WIC and they ALL have nice big flat screen TVs and new video game systems, etc. We still have my old 32 inch TV from college and a used PS2.
And yes on my husband's income (at least his old job he had until 6 months ago) would have qualified us for WIC, didn't mean we NEEDED it, and we darn sure aren't going to get the assistance just because we qualify.
And it's not all about drugs, I realize that many of the people abusing the welfare system aren't using money for drugs, but they have fancy cell phones, and cars, and TVs, etc, etc...I think the welfare system needs way more reform than just drug testing, but at least it is a start.
I think charity needs to go back to the hands of the people and the communities. I think if our tax money wasn't going into such a flawed system, a lot of people would be way more charitable. I know I would be a lot more charitable if people quit acting like they deserved constant hand outs.