Are your dogs needy?

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I'm not sure how to answer this.

They all solicit attention, physical contact, etc regularly. And the boys are orbiters if they are off leash - Pip doesn't even like to get out of sight, Squash will a little bit but he always comes and checks in.

But they can all entertain themselves, too, if you rebuff their advances or tell them to go away/go lay down, etc. So kind of yes and no?
 

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Watson is needy. He doesn't need to be right next to me all the time, but he is really not happy if I leave him (even to go outside). He's much better if it's something routine, like leaving for work, but much worse if I leave him randomly on the weekend.

He's also a huge drama queen if he's scared or uncomfortable. After a few wasp stings he's now afraid of any large flying bugs. This weekend he was tied out while we painted the porch and every time he saw a big bug he would start flailing and trying to get off the tether. If I went to him he climbed in my lap like the world was ending, cuddled for a few minutes, and then he was fine. He's such a baby.

He's not obnoxious about soliciting attention, food, or play though. He lets you know if he wants something, but he's pretty polite about it. He's just very emotionally needy.

It's pretty typical for the breed. They want to be near their people and tend towards mild to moderate separation anxiety.
 
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George - English Shepherd - will swing by, when we are out for a run, to check in and let me tell him what a great dog he is. But, at times he will totally ignore me, too. It depends if he has found something that is more interesting to him - l like running through the flock of chickens and watching the scatter.
 

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Not needy at all. She's a wuss and gets a bit clingy when she's freaked out, but no, she is not needy. She doesn't solicit for attention, is content to relax somewhere else, doesn't much like to play (and certainly won't ask to play), and really won't even ask for dinner (although she can be a teensy bit of a beggar if there's food already around). She won't even ask to go outside.

In a way, she's like a fluffy, breathing pet rock.
 
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Ok, not really, but she's seriously the least needy dog I've ever had. I think it's fairly common for the breed. I personally haven't heard of very many pushy, needy Tollers as far as affection goes. But since Dance is my only one, I can't say for sure. The other one I had for a while was a little more needy, but she also craved one on one attention desperately I believe due to the lifestyle she lived prior.


omg Marsh is SO needy. I describe it like he has really low self-esteem? And needs a lot of validation that there is a Good Boy and he is one. He needs a lot of emotional support.

But Pilot is more likely to want to be in physical contact with me. Pilot feels like he is emotionally stronger, but he is also shaping up to be rather needy, which makes me think it's me, hahaha.
 

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Not really.

Cynder is Miss Jealous Pants. If another dog is getting any kind of affection or attention, she throws herself dramatically at you amd weasels under your arm/in your lap and looks uber pathetic. But she is completely happy to lay in a corner and do her own thing 99% of the day.

Abrams gets needy when he wants something. He'll come over and lay his head by/on you and just dramatically give you puppy dog eyes until you lool at them. Then we wiggles and wags and sildels on to you. Then when you get up, he launches himself in the air and bounds towards whatever it is he wants (out, food, toy, what have you). But he's also content to do his own thing.

Both dogs are our shadows, with Cynder preferring to follow Michael and Abrams preferring to follow me. He trails me everywhere, even the bathroom, but he hangs back a few feet. He doesn't need to touch, he just wants to make sure he knows where I am. He's been known to sit om my feet so he'll know when I move and he'll also lean up against any door I close between us so he'll be sure to know exactly when it opens.
 
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I'm not sure how to answer this.

They all solicit attention, physical contact, etc regularly. And the boys are orbiters if they are off leash - Pip doesn't even like to get out of sight, Squash will a little bit but he always comes and checks in.

But they can all entertain themselves, too, if you rebuff their advances or tell them to go away/go lay down, etc. So kind of yes and no?
Yup that ^ applies to my dogs too. Yes and no for my crew

Cynder is Miss Jealous Pants. If another dog is getting any kind of affection or attention, she throws herself dramatically at you amd weasels under your arm/in your lap and looks uber pathetic. But she is completely happy to lay in a corner and do her own thing 99% of the day.
This is Leia. She is a jealous little thing. If either of the other dogs are getting attention she is always there trying to weasel her way in. She is also great at looking uber pathetic while doing this. Often giving a "What about me?! Don't you remember me?! The cute puppy?!" look.

But she can also be pretty independent. She is more than happy to abandon me to go play by herself or with the other dogs. She is also deeply in love with Morrison and when they are not playing they can almost always be found snuggling together on the couch.

She is also not a fan of my phone, laptop, or booking that I am currently reading. She will abandon her post with Morrison when I get any of the three out. She is then up on my lap trying to peer around or climb on what ever object is in my hand or on my lap.

Morrison is a big baby and can be needy at times. Nothing major though. He is very demanding about dinner time. He knows every day at 5:00 SHOULD be dinner time. And around that time the creepy "feed me" stare kicks in (and the little dogs often follow suit). And then if for some ungodly reason dinner time is any later he whines when then leads to barking/howling depending on how "late" dinner is put off.

He likes to cuddle but is not a velcro dog like he once was. He actually has come a LONG way from the SA ridden dog he was when he first came to live with me. But he does love his comfy furniture and will often pout and pace if every spot is taken up by a person. God forbid he sleep on the FLOOR :yikes:.

He is one of those dogs that if you start petting him it is hard to stop...Not because he is so adorable...But because he physically won't allow you to stop. He is will paw at and head bump your hand until eventually he creeps into your lap :rolleyes:. He loves taking advantage of guests that way.

Fae is can be needy. She is probley the closest to a velcro dog because if she could spend her life in my lap she would. But she also good about giving me space when I ask for it. She is not above laying/sleeping on the floor. She is also good about entertaining herself with toys.

She does not like me out of her eyesight (really none of them do, I walk around this house with three extra shadows). She is not very confident about going outside and will flat out refuse to go if I don't follow her out the door and off the porch. Only when I do that will she chill and enjoy the yard. If I give any hint that I am heading to the porch or door she is right on my heels with terrified "Your not leaving me out here are you?! A big ole hoot owl or hawk may swoop down and carry me away!!" eyes lol.
 

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yes. T_T lol Specifically Artimis really needs to be near/touching someone at all times or he get's a bit stressed out. He's pretty non-intrusive except for his occassional "I must clean out your nose with my tongue" thing.

Talon doesn't need physical contact at all times, but when he does he wants to be as close as physically possible. He tries to meld himself into your body, which can be suffocation (literally) lol

My sister absolutely hates both of them for it, but I kinda like it. :)
 

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