It really depends on who you're talking to and what people consider irresponsible, etc.
I mean, this forum I am probably one of the 'safer' ones? But on... my yorkie forum, for example, I am certainly one of THE most laid back ones lol. And then in real life, you have the people who do everything by the book and "ALLBREEDERSAREBAD!1!!1!" but then I also have the country folk near my dads house whose dogs roam free, are not fixed, and impregnate the neighborhood dogs.
- I don't plan to vaccinate for the rest of his life (minus rabies every 3 years as per the law).. but I feel like on forums this has become more of the 'norm' now
- I do leave him in the car for short periods of time if weather permits. But I won't like... go into a mall or anything. I'm talking quick take out food, drug stores, gas stations, etc.
- He's let out in the fenced in yard by himself at night (granted, no longer than 3-5 mins, and the yard is lit up by some motion lights, but most yorkie owners would NEVER do this in a million years)
- He's allowed to jump on/off anything he wants to (again, a lot of yorkie owners would have a heart attack if they saw him jumping around and the way he moves)
- I hate picking up dog poop when there is NO close by trash cans on trails. I'm not going to carry a bag of his sh*t around for an hour hike. So sometimes I'll just cover it with leaves and be on my way. If I'm in a neighborhood, or camp ground, etc, of course I pick up.
- He is allowed on any piece of furniture and can jump on/off whenever he wants
- He begs for food. And most of the time I think it's funny.
- He's left loose in the house, either by himself, or at my dads house with his 2 dogs
- I feed kibble. And right now it's Purina One Beyond *gasps*. He's also chewing on a Purina dental chew right now. I actually am planning to feed Farmina, waiting on it to be available, and for now finding a food at the grocery store was the easiest. But it's not like I chose the food willy-nilly, I actually have a reason to trust Purina more/if not just as much as some of the past holistic foods I used to feed. I've done bagillion of hours of research online regarding dog food and nutrition.
- I will continue to spay/neuter my future pets at the proper age. Depending on who you talk to, that's going to be looked down upon OR look good lol.
I mean, again, it's all relative. Feeding raw is pretty much looked down upon with most yorkie owners (and I personally don't like it either) but all other forums for a while it seemed to be the 'superior'. And while most people I meet at the dog park are the type to follow what their vet says in regards to vaccine guidelines, listen to their pet store salesman as to what food is best, attend puppy training classes, and spay/neuter is ALWAYS best.... you've also got the people who don't really ever pay attention to their dogs, let them roam free, don't fix them, nor train them or give a crap about what they're eating.
But Jackson lives a **** good life. He's spoiled, he's given ample exercise, he goes on family vacations, daily errands with me, visits new parks/trails/etc, visits family & friends houses with me, sleeps in my bed every night, gets good food, good vet care, gets his teeth brushed every night, gets the best toys, chews. I pay attention to his health, his condition, I constantly train him, etc etc etc. He's literally my best little friend.
I've become more lax I think through the years because I realize there are so many dogs living in horrible conditions, horrible sickly lives, often abused, so I really shouldn't fret about the dogs that are at least allowed in a warm home, given food whatever it may be, and a yard to go in. And even though that's not the type of dog ownership I necessarily think is the BEST for the dog... it's better than a lot.