Ally Is freaking out

[chloesowner]

Help me. She is screaming and saying "I DONT WANT YOU TWO (My dad and sarah) MARRY" I am convincved she is tired.

OUch, pleas ehelp!! PLEASE I AM DESPERATE

 

[~Fox~Trot~]

What?

 

[GlassOnion]

What?

+1

& +3

 

[chloesowner]

She is screaming her head off and I am gonna go INSANE!

 

[GlassOnion]

So turn on some music, put on some earphones, and crank up the volume!

That's what I do when I wanna drown out noises.

 

[~Fox~Trot~]

Who is Ally?

 

[GlassOnion]

Her sister, I believe.

Or cousin, or something. Relative.

 

[Zoom]

Or maybe you should go chime in.

 

[blue]

Yes do join in the fun and releave some built up tension.

 

[smkie]

maybe you should write down on a note that you are upset that she is upset..and that you wish she could calm down so you can a little...i think that is within your rights..

 

[oc_spirit]

Go take Chloë for a long walk. If you make it last an hour or so then she should be calm by the time you come home

 

[bogolove]

How are your dad and Sarah reacting to this?

 

[chloesowner]

I dont know what my dad did. But she always says stuff she never means when she throws fits. She is my future stepsister.

 

[bubbatd]

It's a hard road for her to hoe.... help her through it. Was she hoping her Mom and Dad wowuld get back together ??

 

[chloesowner]

Well I am pretty sure she wishes she could see her dad more. He only takes them Mondays and Tuesdays (not overnight) and thats it.

 

[EliNHunter]

I don't get any of this. Can't follow...don't know who's kids are what, who's driving who nuts, etc. Guess that's why I've chosen to be selfish in my life when it comes to children. I've never had a fascination enough to have my own. I was the youngest in my siblings, so never felt the nurturing thing... unless it was towards the animals. It was always a competitive, hateful thing growing up with my sister, who still hates me to this day. She might be the biggest reason I never sought to have children. I didn't want any other little kid growing up feeling like I did. I'll take animals anyday...

 

[smkie]

how old is she? i am assuming teenager? sweetie it is awful hard as you know when parents get together, i think even harder when it is daddy's gurl..i don't know the whole story but you will need to be take the higher road for usually the one coming in is the one most upset as you can imagine..that is alot of anger built up when a girl says things she doesn't mean and the throwing is to release alot of anger before she feels like she will explode..usually the reason any woman feels that way, like a pressure cooker or a tea kettle when the whistle blows that steam just has to go somewhere. I said a lot of things i didn't mean to my mother when i was that age including once calling her a fool..believe me she has never ever let me forget and somewhere has a letter that i wrote she should have burned long ago. Be patient, and just try not to let it upset you..don't do anything to make it worse. Time is an amazing healer but it can take years. I hope in the long run that you 2 will become close, might not happen until you are adults..i hope not, i hope way sooner for she sounds like she is breaking up inside.

 

[neko12_48767]

I will go with oc_spirit idea. thats what I do when my parents and everyone is fighting. (to bad i'm afraid of walking at night hehe)

 

[bubbatd]

So sad to read this thread !

 

[chloesowner]

She is Six.