A Scary Reminder...

GoingNowhere

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... that dogs are dogs.

This morning, I was home from the internship, so I took Boo on a walk to pick up brunch at the local strip mall. This is a regular occurrence - I tie Boo up outside of the store, grab whatever I want, untie the dog, and we walk home. Except today it seems I forgot that dogs are dogs, not humans.

I wasn't feeling Starbucks this morning, so I parked the dog outside of Quiznos to grab a sub. With no nearby 'built in' trashcans or sidewalk benches, I looped Boo's leash under the nearby small metal table figuring that she doesn't pull so if I told her to wait for me, she'd be fine.

She must've tried to shift around a bit while I was inside, causing the fairly light table to scrape on the cement sidewalk. I'm assuming that she then panicked at the noise because before I even made it to the sandwich line, one of the employees who (thank god) was sitting near the window exclaims "M'aam, your dog is loose!"

I was not expecting that at all and hurried to the door, expecting to see my dog sniffing for scraps around the other tables and chairs. Instead, I didn't see a dog.

My boyfriend was with me at the time and caught sight of my dog barreling in the direction of home. This would've been fine had the direction of 'home' not involved crossing a 4 lane highway. Boo, who is convinced that each and every car was put on earth for the sole purpose of carrying her to all of her favorite places, has absolutely no fear of vehicles. My heart literally sunk as I saw her high tailing it through the parking lot towards the big road.

I called Boo. She kept running. I whistled for her. This is the whistle that usually sends her sprinting in my direction in anticipation of rewards. She stopped, looked back at me, decided that there was no way in hell that she was returning to the vicinity of the monster table, and kept moving away. I told her to "stop." She turned and looked at me walking quickly towards her, decided that I was also headed in an appropriate direction, and kept moving. I yelled for her to stop and wait. Finally, by the grace of god, she must have decided that she was far enough from the scary table to listen to me. She stopped. She waited. After what seemed like an eternity, I had her leash in hand, in the middle of the parking lot road, about 30 feet from the edge of the highway.

Please please please never forget that dogs are dogs and they react to stimuli in ways that we wouldn't always expect. Boo and I will absolutely be going back to that strip mall, but never again will I tie her to anything but a firmly solid object.

Also, PLEASE teach your dog a command like "stop" or "wait." "Come" wasn't going to happen in this scenario. Before you start thinking that your dog has a 100% reliable recall and your dog would absolutely come back to you, please remember: My dog knows how to come. She is responsive to the word. But when all that's running through her mind is "Must. Get. Away." returning to the scene of the scare is the very last thing that is going to happen. The fact that she knows how to 'stop' and 'wait' could very well have saved her life this morning.

I feel like an idiot, but everyone made it back safe and sound, and I definitely learned a valuable lesson. The next time I get the opportunity, I'm going to do my very best to further proof her stop on command.
 

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Oh, wow. I am so sorry you had to go through that but so, so glad Boo did finally listen and everything ended well. Very scary stuff.
 

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So glad she is okay. Definitely an important reminder.
 

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How scary! I'm glad it turned out well and Boo wasn't hurt. I did something similar once when Ruger was younger. We weren't in a populated area thankfully so there was no risk of him running into traffic... but it shook me to the core that I didn't foresee what could have happened and that my dog could have been injured. My dogs all know "wait" - it started out simply because when we'd walk trails, I didn't want them getting too far ahead or out of sight... but there have been a few times where it has proven to be quite handy in minor situations, and I feel better knowing I have that command if we were ever in a serious situation like Boo was!
 

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-hug- Oh that's so scary! I am so, so glad that everything worked out okay. It's so easy to forget!

I lost Bailey coon hunting once, and it was the most sickening feeling. I let him off leash before he'd found a trail, and instead of throwing a nice, loud bay for me to follow, he ran off silently into the woods. I felt so, incredibly awful and it took me almost three days (with ATVs and a handful of other curs) to finally convince him that home was a good place to be.

That was nearly three years ago, and now he's got an emergency down and a radio collar.
 

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wow. I'm glad it ended well for you though. That's why I said the best advice I've ever gotten is that dogs are dogs, not people. When you get that, it really changes the way you reason situations out.
 

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Yeah, it was definitely quite the scare and I was certainly beating myself up over it when I got back this morning. It's just so easy to fall into a mindset of "my dog always acts like XYZ..." and forget that fear, pain, and other extreme emotions can be triggered by things which wouldn't even cause most people to bat an eye yet set an animal's senses into overdrive and cause that animal to react in a very atypical way.

And the worst part about this scenario is that it's a situation that, well, was so situational, but at the same time could have happened to anyone. I didn't deliberately let the dog off of the leash. She's better trained than the vast majority of pet dogs. She's been tied at that strip before without issue. Yet all it took was something so seemingly slight as the sound of metal scraping against concrete to put her into panic mode. It just really makes you think.

I'm glad to hear that all of you all's "almost a disaster" stories have also ended at just an "almost."
 
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I'm so sorry, terribly scary thing to have happen, but glad it ended up okay...I used to tie my border collie outside businesses sometimes and usually she'd have a fan club or at least somebody sharing their lunch with her by the time I came out.

With Sophie she's too fearful and too strong to be tied out even for a second. Either I take her in dog friendly stores or stand at the door and ask a counterperson to take my order and bring it to me.

There was a time once with the border collie when I was in CVS and they announced " Will the owner of the black and white dog please go to the parking lot, your dog is loose", fortunately a bunch of teenage boys caught her for me...it is scary
 
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My girl hasn't pulled a stunt like that in a few years, but its happened enough for me to know that she's not the kind of dog that can be left unattended in public. I've had friends who had off leash dogs that just waited outside the store... not mine.

Each dog has its own personality.

Glad you and your pupp are safe. I would have been shaken for a bit, myself.
 

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Poor Boo! And poor you! :( I don't blame you, Boo barely seems like a dog to me either... she's so clever and sweet. I'm glad she listened to you, and the employee let you know what was going on, and she wasn't stolen or anything awful like that.

Fozzie is barely a dog, too. If I tied him up outside of a store I'm confident that he'd just lay there, letting any strangers walk by and pet him as they pleased. I'm just afraid he would get stolen. A bunch of teens around the city say he's the coolest dog they've seen, and people try to offer to buy him a lot, so I would be too scared of him being stolen. He loves people too much. Especially guys. He'd run off happily with a teenage boy!
 

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I feel your pain! Maddie took off Saturday, darted out of the door, which she has NEVER done and I FREAKED. So glad everything turned out okay :eek:

And I was going to suggest emergency down. I taught Bailey it and I love it! Wish I'd started Maddie's sooner, when she was younger, and made it more concrete. Its like a very foreign thing to her now :eek: lol
 

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I'm glad it ended well. It's so easy to get complacent with our dogs. I do it too often myself.

And yeah, I agree with emergency stops. I've had successful stops from my dogs in situations where the recall failed.
 
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Bet your heart beats faster just thinking about it even after it's over.

Scary things can happen, stuff that's just completely off-the-wall, never in a million years would you imagine it stuff.

Like the afternoon, after school traffic rush time, not too long after I got Tallulah, when I found myself dodging in and out of four lanes of traffic after her, mainly trying to make us visible enough that she wouldn't get hit.

They sure can give us white hairs some days!
 

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yes it's scary. Renee, you hit the nail on the head - it's all over - but it's still in my mind. And I really can't be mad at anyone but myself (and then I wonder if I really should be mad at myself?) because Boo wasn't being bad, stubborn, or disobedient. She was literally just in a blind panic.

She is a dog that can typically be tied up and expected to lie down until you return. But yesterday something spooked her and she panicked. Unfortunately, that one moment of panic happened to be when she was not tied to something solid.

When I noticed that she was loose,I didn't even think about the metal table lying upside down in the middle of the parking lot road until I managed to catch her.
 

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