A re-introduction

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Hola, everyone.

I was an active member here for a while, and then I dropped off the Chaz map. A lot has happened to me over the last few years, and I honestly can't remember when I last posted. I searched my own posts and this forum is so active its kind of hard for me to pinpoint the last post I made. I see some familiar faces here from before, and I occasionally get people on other sites saying "Oh I remember you from Chaz!" so I decided to drop back by. I've actually all but eliminated message boards from my 'net experience lately, so coming back to this one is an indicator of its quality. :)

A little bit of catching up:

What happened was that my husband and I separated in early 2009. I tried to stick it out in Oklahoma, but I couldn't find a job and the house was 3 months in arears. So faced with these choices -- go home and live with mom at the tender age of 29, or strike out in a new direction -- I took up a generous offer from Matrix kennels to pack up and move in with them in west Texas. The short version of our deal is that I take care of a baker's dozen of APBTs in exchange for a room in the house. Sort of a live-in dog nanny. I took a job at a grooming/boarding kennel down here, so my day is largely taking care of other peoples' dogs. Its fun at times, but I've also been known to occasionally mutter "Man, I'm so sick of dogs."

There were some unfortunate losses besides just my marriage. Priest, our beautiful male APBT, had to be PTS because he couldn't handle the chaos in his world after his stable home broke up. His mind was blown. Very sad experience for everybody who had to be involved in the euthing of a promising young dog, but it bore with it some valuable lessons. I also parted ways with our cat, Kiba (went with the ex) and both of our snakes (rehomed). I still have my girls, Loki and Terra. And in spite of some people growling about this, I've made peace with my ex on a friend level.

So at present, I work at lot. And then I work some more. Holidays being a time of family for most people, I'll be busy in the boarding kennels at work. My family is all up in St. Louis anyway. Lost a bunch of weight the first year here, found 30 lbs of it back and trying to find the motivation to shake loose of it again. Oh yeah, and 2 months ago I replaced my aging Saturn SL2 (which I loved to death) with a Chevy HHR, so I've got a little more room for dogs and whatever else. The cool thing there is that I cleaned up the Saturn and gave it to a co-worker in need. That's my big pay-it-forward for the next decade. LOL!

I still show my dogs, just not nearly as much as I used to. Terra finished her UKC and ADBA CH titles since being down here, and got her UWP (weight pull) and URO1 (rally) titles. She also passed the ADBA's Safedog test and got her CGC. Plus she got her health-testing done and has so far passed everything. Loki's got her URO1, too, but her big achievement was that she finally got her UCDX title (open obedience). So at 8 years old, she's more or less retired. Got a few skin tags and some grey hairs, but she likes hanging out on the big bed well enough. Terra I hope to finish up her UWPCH and then get to work on obedience and agility.

Some recent pics. If there are enough pics here that it qualifies for the photo section, pre-emptive apologies to the mods.

Loki:






 
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Terra:








Ishi! (Yes, I name my cars.)




I'd share some pics of the dogs that I work with on a daily basis, but that'd take up a whole 'nother thread. If you're on my FB, you've already seen them. Or you can see some of them by Googling Matrix kennels.

Anyway, looking forward to chatting you guys up a little bit. No time to get as deeply involved as I used to be, but I hope to be around. Laters!
 

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Welcome back! Sounds like it's been a heck of a ride for awhile, glad to hear you're doing well in spite of it all.

I have an HHR too... love mine. :)
 
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Sizzle, my HHR is the love of my life, next to my two dogs. I almost jump when someone asks me if I'll lug something for them, because its another chance to drive Ishi and also test her versatility. Tonight we had two people, two crated dogs, a new large crate, two dog beds, and laundry in her. It was great. :D

Jess, thanks. :)
 

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Sizzle, my HHR is the love of my life, next to my two dogs. I almost jump when someone asks me if I'll lug something for them, because its another chance to drive Ishi and also test her versatility. Tonight we had two people, two crated dogs, a new large crate, two dog beds, and laundry in her. It was great. :D

Jess, thanks. :)
Omigosh, me too - it's got quite the reputation as the "clown car" around here, as it's a small SUV but SO MUCH fits in it!

Not to hijack, but here's mine... his name is Herbie. ;)



I like that I can fit two Doberman-sized crates in it...
 

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BAHA!!!

I was actually, seriously and for real just thinking about you yesterday and wondering how you were doing.

That is so sad about Priest, I loved that dog from your pictures. Nice to see Loki still looks as gorgeous as ever and Terra really has come into her own! :)
 
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Hey, Aimee. :)

Sizzle, man that red is awesome against the skyline. I bought mine used, so didn't really get to pick the color. They had a white one that was a year newer and didn't have the hail pings, but my credit wasn't good enough to get the financing. But Ishi is only a 2010, so I'm happy with that. I prefer her charcoal-y color to white, anyway. I figured out that she can accommodate 3 intermediates and a medium, so room enough for 3 APBTs and 1 APBT playing bonsai puppy. (And two humans.)

Zoom, hi! I've missed this place. And yeah, I'll probably always 2nd-guess how the Priest thing went down. But he's been gone for coming up on 3 years now, so it is what it is. And thanks. It took a while but now when I look at baby T, I see an adult dog and not a scrawny beanpole-pup.
 

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Great to see you back! I was just thinking about you not very long ago. Sorry to hear about everything you've been through, though. Loki and Terra are looking great as always!
 

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GOOD TO SEE YOU!
I often wondered what you were doing... and have to admit I still often google search pics of Terra. I adore her so much so I'm glad your back.
 
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BAHA!!!!!!! (((((((BODYSLAMHUG))))))) It is SO FREAKING GOOD TO SEE YOU! You've been on my mind, too.

I am so sorry about Priest. Sometimes even though the body is strong the mind shatters and there's no kindness to an existence like that. You've taken more than your share of hits yourself, it seems, but I am glad that it sounds like you've wound up in a good place.

Terra and Loki are looking spectacular.

Now . . . hook me up to your FB?

Did I have Tallulah last time you were here? I can't remember if you were here when she moved in with me.
 

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It's so good to have you back! Loki is one of the main reasons I fell in love with APBTs, I loved her agility pics. I'm so sorry to hear about Priest, I can't imagine how hard that decision must have been. I hope you stick around!
 

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I'm so glad you decided to come back. Welcome!! Your dogs are gorgeous and so fit looking. I'm really sorry about all the chaos that went on since you were here, but glad to see you're back on top. I'm sad to hear about the loss of Priest...so hard. And for the break up of your marriage. But glad you two are maintaining civility and a sort of friendship. My ex and I also, some years back let by-gones be by-gones and are now pals. It's so much better for all. It sounds like you have some great goals ahead. I hope you stay a part of this group. We missed you.

Oh, and your car is great...a perfect fit.
 
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Awes. Y'all got me feeling the love. So much so that I'm posting from my mobile.
You and Miakoda and Marty and so many others changed the whole dynamic here, from a forum that was largely unaware of Pitbulls except marginally as "another breed" to one that is rabidly Pro-Pit.

And there are, I feel safe in saying, more than just my Tallulah who were rescued because of you all.

You changed things. <3
 

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You and Miakoda and Marty and so many others changed the whole dynamic here, from a forum that was largely unaware of Pitbulls except marginally as "another breed" to one that is rabidly Pro-Pit.

And there are, I feel safe in saying, more than just my Tallulah who were rescued because of you all.

You changed things. <3

This :)

This is the only all-breed forum I've ever been on that lacks any "pit hate".

I remember you and your dogs. I always thought they were the best looking APBTs I'd ever seen, and now I stalk Matrix kennels :D
 

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