I've kinda read this thread but while we're completely derailing anyway... Why would you purposely try to make someone feel awful?
there's a great chance the OP has a much healthier self esteem than I do (actually I really hope she does...) but if I'd said I felt welcomed and at home here, and this was your response, I'd probably cry, delete allllll my posts while crying, and never come back
I realize I'm overly sensitive... but that just seems needlessly mean.