Having Gracie and Cooper here for a few days made me realize that Abrams isn't a bad dog, he's just much (much) bigger. When he misbehaves it seems more drastic, but in the end, he's just a dog. I feel like I judge him unfairly or too harshly because I'm comparing him to Cynder, who is the dog that does no wrong, when in the end...he's just a dog, and one that does his best to do the right thing.
I have a better appreciation for him now, I think. I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that he isn't my perfect dog in some ways (he's never going to be an easy, take everywhere, do everything dog), but in the ways I really need him to be, he is wonderful. And that I can have an awesome dog that means the world to me, even if that dog isn't "perfect".
I love my boy. <3