I hope you have a safe and easy delivery
sorry, I don't know much about the individual process beyond just the mechanics I had to learn in anatomy.. parenting just isn't my cup of tea.
It's not that I don't like kids..it's that I respect kids and I think they should have parents who really want them.
And trust me, I have been around families where parents did NOT want kids or had them for the wrong reasons (like because they felt they should or had to or to fix their relationship).. and those families are experiencing anything except unbridled joy. Resentment is an ugly ugly emotion and has no place around an innocent child.
People who want children do sometimes feel their lives are completed by having them.
But people who don't want them I feel should NOT HAVE THEM. It's not like a piece of you will be missing or you will be less of a couple or less of a person.. there is lots to life without kids. I know plenty of DINKs who are happy are clams
(Double income no kids) and vice versa.. I think it's all about being honest about what you want and what works for you.
That said.. love all the chaz babies and the pictures you guys provide! lol all the cute, none of the diapers!