Mine, definitely mine! I'm told that even though they are out of their kennels while I'm at work, they just lay on my bed and wait for me to come home. Once I'm home Scout totally schmoozes my roomies, but apparently when I'm gone they just mope around.
My mom watches them if I'm gone and apparently whatever day I'm headed back Lily chirps and paces all that day. I have no idea how she knows, but she does. Scout's a little more reserved about all of it, but I'm the one person she truly cares about on this planet and she's been that way since we first met.
Both my cats are still mine even though they live at my mom's. Missy waits by the front door on the day's I'm headed there I guess. The old Scummy cat is more a family cat, but follows me into the bathroom every time. Unless Lily beats her to it. LOL.
The "family" BC tries to leave with me when I head back to work at the end of the weekend. LOL. He does love my stepdad a lot, but he isn't a stupid dog... he's well aware of the perks the girls get living with me.
The last guy I dated had his own dog. She was definitely his, though she freaking adored me. Honestly his care (or the gaping holes thereof) really bothered me and I think the big discrepency there would have been a very large issue in the long run. No that wasn't the dealbreaker before you ask.
He also was horrified and disgusted the one time I took him to bitework which hurt a LOT. He said all the right things of yeah I know you love it and its just not for me, etc., but the palpable revulsion coming off him was unhidable. I still get upset thinking about that.
Hopefully next guy I end up with is more on the same page.