Word usage - Pet peeves

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I can forgive many , but the me , myself and I bother me most ! It's so easy to correct ! " Him and me went out " ....Him didn't go out and me didn't go out !
 

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Not sure if this has already been said, the incorrect usage there, their, they're, it drives me nuts. Also, I "seen" instead of I saw. For some reason here, in Minnesota the whole borrowing thing is backwards. They say I borrowed her some money, etc.
 

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Oh, if you wanna see nitpicky things that bug me: alot.
A. lot. A lot. IT'S TWO WORDS.
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I had a friend who was German, and he told me his wife (American) spoke better German than he could. It's because she learned technical grammar... and he didn't. So it's not just Americans and/or the English language. I think it's ANY language. Somebody who is a foreign speaker rather than a native one is probably going to be able to hit the technical sides of it better.
 

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I can forgive many , but the me , myself and I bother me most ! It's so easy to correct ! " Him and me went out " ....Him didn't go out and me didn't go out !
Would that be "He and I?" but then again to me, He and I doesn't sound right.

Carrie no, you didn't offend me one bit. It was just an example. I used to be horrid at spelling and grammar, I never used proper punctuation or capitalization and my wording was a lot worse then it is now as well. How about.

Naku walked to the bar. "May I please have a drink." He had said.
Would that be more grammatically correct?

Oh and a few years ago had you asked me to spell some of these bigger words seen in my posts...well...I probably would have spelled them completely wrong and no I'm not using a spell check.
 

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we had a client bring in a Pomeranian today. We have these little cards where they fill in the pets info. under breed she wrote.....

PALM
 
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This one bugs me a lot. People who don't use the proper abbreviation for states. Washington is WA not Wash. Oklahoma is OK not Okla. LOL. I've seen these used on letters, and I laugh each time I see it.
 

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Yes Cricket .... " He went out and I went out : therefore he and I went out " .
 
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Not grammar but for some reason a lot of people write aloud when they mean allowed, I do not know why but that bugs me.
Oooh, and that reminds me. Someone I know always uses here instead of hear. That one bugs me. Not sure if that was already mentioned. I don't pick at anyone or point it out, I just chuckle to my self really, because normally I know what they mean.
 

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Double negations are what bother me the most. Ugh.

And 'sandles' etc... About grammar stuff (yours, their etc), I mean I'm French and I write better English than a lot of people, it's pretty sad when you think about it.
I actually use double negatives on purpose fairly regularly. For example, I would say someone was "not unkind" -- meaning that the subject wasn't mean, but it's different than saying that the subject was actually nice. It's not incorrect, but because so many people learn that double negatives are BAD, it bugs some people.

Also, I bet it's the case that you understand English better than many native speakers. Good grammar has always been fairly natural for me, but it actually started to make more sense when I learned a second language in school.
 
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One thing that does annoy me is people who seem to have the inability to say certain words! lol. I have an aunt who always says "sequence", as in an order of events, instead of "sequins", as in small, shiny accents that you sew onto clothing and such. A few years ago sequins were really popular on shoes and purses, you know all that bohemian/gypsy stuff that was on style. I could hardly stand to be around her at that time, lol.

My mom always pronounces "salmon" exactly how its spelled. That annoys me.
I once got into an arguement with my ex boyfriend about how salmon was pronounced. He had a very high IQ so I was pretty shocked when he stood there and kept telling me that the L is NOT silent. Ummm, yeah, I am from the pacific north west, I grew up on the stuff... I KNOW how salmon is pronounced. He is from tenessee and probably never ate a salmon in his life. I hate know it alls.
 
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Another thing that bugs me... My mom refers to flip flop sandals as thongs. When I hear "thong" I think about the type of underwear I wear. It confuses the heck out of me when she says "get your thongs on". Haha.
 

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Another thing that bugs me... My mom refers to flip flop sandals as thongs. When I hear "thong" I think about the type of underwear I wear. It confuses the heck out of me when she says "get your thongs on". Haha.
I grew up knowing flip flops and thongs, never knew anything about thongs "underwear" until I was a teenager.
 
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What gets me is 'preggers' is exactly the same length as 'pregnant' so...I just really don't get that at all. I guess it's supposed to be cute, but it sounds idiotic. And 'preggo' is two letters short. Whoo! Big abbreviation there.
Well, I don't spell prego with two "g" letters, so its really 3 letters short. But I know its not that big of a difference, lol. Pregnant just seems like such a long word when you are on a cell phone, which I am right now. I need to get my internet back on. Lol.
 

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Naku walked to the bar. "May I please have a drink." He had said.
"May I please have a drink, he had said." (all one sentence...just use a comma after drink, not a period there.)

Although....it seems a little awkward to put the "had" in there, but it's not incorrect. I'd just leave it like, "May I please have a drink," he said.

Yeah Cricket.... He and I. The way you can tell, is to leave out the other person and try out the sentence, like Grammy showed. You wouldn't say, "Him went out." And you wouldn't say, "Me went out." Therefore, you don't say, "Him and me went out." It is in fact, "He and I went out." (He went out) (I went out) LOL. Actually, I haven't gone out with anyone for a long time.

Here's another thing...the I vs. me: John came with Mary and I to the store. (incorrect) It should be: John came with Mary and me to the store. Leave off one of the names. Would you say, John came with I to the store? No...you'd say, "John came with me to the store." But, if you say something like, "John, Mary and I went to the store" that is correct. I went to the store. You wouldn't say, Me went to the store. It's to do with who or what is the object or indirect object and who is the subject.

DIRECT vs. INDIRECT OBJECT

An object is a noun that is the recipient of the verb in the sentence. It's easier to demonstrate than to explain:

Xena grabbed her sword.

Xena is the subject, because she performs the verb. "Grabbed" is the verb; "her" is a possessive pronoun; the sword is the direct object because the grabbing is performed upon it.


Xena put her sword on the table.

Xena is the subject; "put" is the verb; the sword is the direct object; the table is the indirect object.

Grammar to me is fun...it's like a puzzle. Of course, I screw it up all the time. But I still am interested in it and like to figure things out when I'm not in such a hurry to write posts on Chaz. LOL.

Oh, and double negatives are not all wrong. That example about not being unkind (or whatever it was...I forget for sure) is not wrong... like saying, "I don't have nothing." It is a variation on the idea that someone is kind. But it takes on a slightly different meaning, doesn't it. It's like maybe the person isn't exactly going to make you jump for joy, he's so kind, but on the other hand, isn't exactly unkind either. LOL. So, I don't think that kind of double negative is wrong. It just adds more flavor to something.
 

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"May I please have a drink, he had said." (all one sentence...just use a comma after drink, not a period there.)
No. "He had said" go outside the quotation marks.
 

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my pet peeve about words is people being anal about other people's word usage.. lol
 

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