What to Expect When Raising a Puppy

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  1. Doberluv

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    What to Expect When Raising a Puppy

    Raising dogs is not easy. Raising children is not easy. We sometimes expect a puppy to turn into a well behaved, mature dog in an instant. Just like children, growing up is a gradual process. We know our toddlers will take many years to become mature, well adjusted adults. Although a dog’s lifespan is shorter, there is still a time frame for growth and development. There is much to learn and attention spans are short. Patience and keeping our expectations reasonable is the key. The more we understand of canine behavior, the better our puppies will develop into the well mannered, obedient adults we envision.

    Many people acquiring a new puppy are horrified at the puppy’s “misbehavior;” chewing their best pair of Reboks into a state of non-recognition, destroying their Grandmother’s Oriental rug, leaving piles of unidentifiable, body waste products and in general, causing untold chaos in their unleashed enthusiasm for life. What many people don’t realize is that these things that puppies do are absolutely normal. This is not misbehavior to a dog’s way of thinking. They are not human and don’t have a clue how to live like a human being. It is up to us to show them the way. Communication and patience is what it takes to educate these wild beasts to co-exist with us, to take them from their near wildness into the warmth our family homes.

    But how do we communicate with an animal who can’t speak our language and we can’t speak theirs? We do the best we can and learning some of their language and teaching them some of ours is the only way we can connect with our beloved pets. If we do not educate ourselves, our fantasizing of a lovely, well mannered dog, which is also happy and spirited is not likely to come to fruition. If we know that our young pup is teething and not at all aggressive, but instead is at a stage of assertiveness or that our once willing and obedient puppy is now an adolescent and is testing the waters, we could save ourselves a lot of frustration. By setting realistic expectations in keeping with a dog’s normal developmental stages, we will make a rough road a lot smoother.

    What to expect:
    7 – 12 weeks

    Your puppy’s ability to focus and attention span are short. He has very little bladder and bowel control. He will need constant supervision. He needs to be encouraged with positive reinforcement and he needs to bond with people and get accustomed to new surroundings.

    While he’s this young, he will tend to follow you closely and look to you for security. He knows little or nothing of what you expect of his behavior. Your puppy will be capable of learning simple, basic commands; sit, down, stay, come. You’ll need to keep his lessons short and fun.

    Socialize your new puppy to different people, friendly dogs who have been vaccinated and that you know and various environments gradually, but steadily. Make sure each experience is pleasant and that nothing frightens your puppy.

    What to expect:
    4 – 8 months

    The pup is becoming much more self assured and is very busy. He won’t come when called and won’t obey very well. He’ll be relentless in attention seeking behavior, barking, stealing, and running off. He may seem deliberately vindictive but he’s really just trying to be what he best knows how to be...a dog. He will need to be shown that calm, obedient and gentle behavior is what will win your attention and affection. Reward him for coming close to you and for good behavior. Leaving a leash on him, but supervised will help you be able to reinforce your commands. He will also need some good exercise and plenty of romping.

    What to expect:
    9-12 months

    Your adolescent is now a sweet, compliant darling one minute and a defiant, independent rouge the next. He has a constant struggle between his good sense which you have worked all this time to instill and his sexual hormones which are beginning to course through his body. He is going to be testing you on an ongoing basis, making you wonder if he doesn’t have a serious personality disorder. This is the time to turn up the speed on your obedience training. He’ll need refresher courses on what you have already taught him. Increase exercise according to his breed and needs.

    What to expect:
    18 – 24 months

    This is the time when your young adult dog might try to exhibit more protective or territorial behavior than in previous stages. He needs to know, beyond a doubt that you are the one taking care of him and he does not need to control you and your family. In a dog pack, dogs need to know that they are working members and not the controlling member. They would just as soon not be the controlling member, but if no one is taking on that role clearly, then they know that someone has got to do it… and they will. This is where we hear of a lot of aggression problems, resource guarding and over protectiveness. Socialization must continue. That lesson is never over. Some dogs will never have much desire to attempt to take control. Some others may be more up front in the line up and are prepared for the job.

    Be sure you research the breed you’re interested in and understand what job it was bred to do. This has a huge bearing on temperament and will make or break your relationship with your dog. Is the job it was bred to do and the personality which goes along with it, in keeping with your lifestyle? If you have certain expectations of a dog, a relaxed, unfettered, outgoing, friendly dog and you get a high maintenance protection dog that requires more than the average amount of involvement, you will be in for the ride of your life.

    Finally, all thinking mammals learn best by the use of a motivational and reward system of training. Punishment has little use in teaching anyone and if we don’t take the time in understanding canine behavior and can’t identify their motives and developmental stages, our expectations will be out of line with their capabilities. A bond will never be fully realized and our relationship with our canine pals is the very most important tool in training that we have and they don’t sell that in pet stores. Learn all you can, be involved with your best friend and this will help you know what to expect and will keep you both on a forward moving and happy course.



    by Carrie
     
  2. bridey_01

    bridey_01 Kelpiefied

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    That's wonderful Doberluv. Makes me feel proud of my little Azlan for his sits and downs. But talk about attention span, lol. He gets distracted by his own tail sometimes.
     
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    That is fantastic Bridey that he's already doing all that. Well, I'm not suprised. You obviously understand dogs. And I see you too have a sense of humor when it comes to their funny little ways....like that distraction thing. It could be very frustrating if we didn't keep hold of a little humor.
     
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    I was actually hoping this little layout of stages might help new puppy owners who seem to be suprised and overwhelmed sometimes at some of the things puppies do. It's nice to know that their pups are normal, even while they are driving them batty. LOL. We all go through it when we have puppies but if we're prepared, it sure makes it easier.
     
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    I think a sense of humour is essential in being a trainer. Otherwise you would go crazy!
    Even one of my top, best trained dogs has off days where she suddenly decides she likes water (hated it for years) and spends the whole training session splashing in and out of puddles whilst barking ear splittingly. I was the teacher of the class and I had to leave because MY dog was misbehaving! Talk about crazy. I only just found out today that Azlan works better outside than inside (?) He seems to work better with distractions!
    We're doing the whole "meet a hundred people before twelve weeks" thing, so I'm getting really proud about the "oh isn't he cute" comments. It's suprising how many people don't know what a rough collie is, i always end up saying "a lassie dog".
     
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    Oh, that is funny!

    I think that's great that he's getting a great social life started. He'll be wonderful.

    One of the things that my breeder of my Dobe said that will forever stick in my mind is, "Let him be a puppy." Those words meant so much to me. While everything is important, the training the manners and the socialization, (tops) to remember those words is to raise a happy, well adjusted dog.
     
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    That's why I recommend the book " How To Raise a Puppy You Can Live With "...Rutherford and Neil !!!! All of the above plus more. Even evaluation of pup before you pick one out. A must read !
     
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    Barb04 Love my pets Staff Member

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    Great posting Doberluv! I'm printing this out to give to a couple of people I know.
     
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    yes, it's really good. I didn't know what to expect with a younger puppy because I never had one and now I know what to expect in the coming months. It's sort of like the "what to expect..." books for people about their kids and what they'll be doing for the first two years only for dogs. Thanks!
     
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    qwkslvr Vizsla Mom

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    Well it is nice to know that my 6 month old vizsla that i adopted is acting completely normal. Maybe I should not refer to him as the big dummie. The attention span or lack of it, is quite madening. But we will deal with it. I sometimes think he is more like a two year old kid at this point. Toys are everywhere, sometimes to busy playing and cant quite make it outside to potty, wont settle down for a nap cause he might miss something so he becomes a bratty dog, whines and cries cause he stubs a toe and needs mom to kiss it and make it better. Does this sound like a kid to you??? Well he is, just has 4 legs and is hairy and slobbers. :D Have a great day all !
     
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    Very nicely done. Brings to mind a conversation my husband and I just had about our puppy "changing overnight." He went from an obnoxious, noisy and annoying (at times ;) ) little boy, to a calmer, quieter and sweeter young man in what seems like a weeks time. He was constantly harrassing my male pug to play with him to the point where he would earn himself "time outs" and he would always bark at my female pug CONSTANTLy because she would not play with him. He still has his moments, but I finally feel like all the time outs and all the praise for good behavior and gentle reminders of the right thing to do is finally paying off!!!! Right when I think I can't take it anymore he's an angel overnight LOL!!! :D They are worth every minute of it aren't they :rolleyes:
     
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    OMG!!! Showpug! That has got to be one of the most adorable pictures I've seen in a long time. What a precious dumpling. He can hardly stand on his feet it looks like. Look at his nails on that front left foot. He doesn't dare move a muscle, lest he looses his balance, so he's just going to leave his toes all spread funny. LOL.

    I'm glad if this little thingy I wrote out is of some use. Thanks for the nice words too.
     
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    Thanks for the post, I think it's really great for people who are getting new puppies! This would be great for my friend. Do you know who the author was so he/she is sure to get credit?
     
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    I just noticed this one month old post Kristine. Sorry. I wrote up that little piece.
     
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    I couldnt have said it better myself, which is true, because it would sound like this "Bark. bark. bark!" Thank god for keyboards and opposable dewclaws.

    And as much as I seem confusing to my owners, they certainly confuse me.

    And I am like them too in a lot of ways. I can be cranky, moody.... fun, loving, playful.. ignorant when I want to be or calm and serene. We dogs are not as simple as you think we are.
     
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    Thanks for the lay of the land so to speak and the book suggestion. Will look at getting that before Saturday when we pick up our newest member. Everyone thinks I'm crazy adding a dog, and then a puppy to crazy crew of 4 kids. But I think that it teaches kids how to be better people when they have animals around to take care of play with and be considerate of.
     
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    adamwehn Learning Puppy Wrangler

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    This was beautiful, I wish I had been directed to this post in dealing with my problems with my Dusty. I now have a much more clear understanding of his little hyperactive mind.
     
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    Thank u for sharing this with me, I found it very interesting with my pup Snoop.. And true.
     
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    Thanks for that... Ive just recently got my first puppy and i think thats going to really help me! THANKS!! Sophie x
     
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    Good luck !!! new puppy owners !!!
     

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