I don't care what excuse they have for it being OK, it is NOT ok. If it was a huge problem like they weren't sending her a lunch, or only sending twinkies....then they should call the parents. But it was obvious the parents weren't starving their child, and it was a decent lunch for a 4 year old, they need to just stay out of it. I think schools need to look at what they are serving before complaining about what parents send their children. You really think frozen chicken nuggets is as good nutritionally as a turkey and cheese sandwich? And considering schools count french fries as vegetables (if you don't believe me, watch Jamie Oliver Food Revolution), I would guess potato chips might as well be counted as a veggie too.