Well thr probs with out idiot boss have gotten worse, we are back at the other place & we find out that he has been telling the owner of the horses we train (& the boss of all of us) lots of crappy & not true things about us don't know exactly what but we know he told him things like we didn't listen to him (he is the superviser of the other place, my fiancee's friend is the boss of the one we are at right now) & we didn't take good care of the horses... Yadda Yadda. also when he comes & is supposed to work on or fix something half thr time he never shows up & thr other half he just stands around & smokes & orders the maintenance guys here (who he makes help him) around being very condescending to them. As well as us the entire time we were there when he knows the ppl have no choice but to put up with it. Well when he came to drop off a few retiring horses to be turned out, he asked how thr new feed buckets were doing, OH said not good since he stupidly chose snaps that were too small to get off with thr buckets for cleaning so as a result the horses play with them & break them. He told my OH to 'f-off' & not kidding about it so OH defended himself & a verbal fight insued. So we think he told thr boss that he didn't cause it & that it's all our fault. Our hatred for this guy started when he took over power & became a jerk who thinks he knows it all but really knows nothing, half the horses we broke plus a few of the older horses are now broke down thanks to him, but the real insult was when we got thr word that Izze was dying on the table while being prepped for surgery (i was actually GETTING the call from the vet when this was HAPPENING!!!) OH mentioned that we think someone we work with migh have done it or had something to do with it & the vet seemed to think so as well, he got mad & basically told OH that it was just a dog & that we should 'get over it'. It has also caused a strain on our relationship, which caused a fight that leaves me wondering what is going to happen with our relationship (like unsaid it's been tense & strained at times) don't worry about the dogs, they are family josefina (OH's dog) would go with him & Buddy of course would go with me. If worse came to worse that is... I still M optometric that it's just the stress of it all (the irritation has come more from his end then mine, but he's saying that it's things I'm doing but honestly I don't know what he is talking about) I mean I know I'm ADD so I can be weird anyway & it also means that I do NOT handle stress well, but it makes me depressed & withdrawn, not mad or bitter like he is but I guess everyone is different. Guess I'll wait & see what happens, the other day we learned that the boss might be moving all the babies soon (don't know when of if he will in the end send them all) to the other place, he was only planning to send 4. Will update .