Ok, my husband said I am spoiling Lily and I hope that I am not. I sometimes let her sit in my lap and I will carry her in and out of the house if she refuses to walk. I let her up on the couch and let her take an afternoon nap with me. Is this spoiling, or just loving my puppy? I don't want her to grow up to be spoiled. Also he says I brush her too much. I brush her once a day for about fifteen to twenty minutes (only because she likes it so much and sits like a good girl when I'm brushing her). Am I brushing her too much, and if I am what will happen if she's brushed too much. I know I'm TOO paranoid with her but I can't help it, I don't want her to grow up to be a spoiled brat and think she can do whatever she wants. I know I wasn't like this with Hannah but Lily is just so poofy and cute you can't help but let her crawl up on the couch and sit on your lap.