For about the last 2 months getting him to eat a meal in one place without being policed has been a nightmare. They eat at their own table these days since I still havent decided on a big table I want and I usually dont get to eat until Jeremy gets home. He got to pick it out, he picks out his dinner, he picks out his plate and spoon (not that he uses the spoon). He throws a fit if I force him to sit in one place (like full on sensory issue tantrum). We borrowed a full size folding table from a friend and ate a family dinner there one night to see if that changed anything and even eating at the same table he acted that way and pissed Savannah off because she had to be in her swing/bouncer and it was just hell. If hes not doing that hes pouring his drink on his or Bevs plate unless I put it in a sippy cup. I just want ONE night of not telling him to sit down and eat or dont spill your drink, or the million things I have to tell him to get him to eat and thats IF he eats. Im just worn out just from THIS fight with him. He hasnt seen a therapist yet because lets face it we are in S. Ga nothing happens here in a decent time frame.