And that's what I get. I've had to go my whole life understanding people but not knowing how to communicate/react appropriately.
Unfortunately because I'm the one in the house no one cares if I have any issues. And while you *general not anyone here* may have issues with people not being understanding to your situation the same goes for the person handing out candy.
If you don't say thank you *you being child or parent* I don't know is this conversation/interaction done? Can I close the door? What if I cut you off because you weren't done is that rude? If you don't say thank you I don't know if I acted correctly. Did I say the right thing? Did I act excited or happy enough?
I get you want people to turn a blind eye because your child may have issues and it's difficult to deal with but it's the exact same for people on the other side. You can preach being understanding all you like but if you aren't acting the same to the people on the other side nothings going to change for the better for your child or for that other person.
tl;dr
Saying thank you for your child can go a long way.
Unfortunately because I'm the one in the house no one cares if I have any issues. And while you *general not anyone here* may have issues with people not being understanding to your situation the same goes for the person handing out candy.
If you don't say thank you *you being child or parent* I don't know is this conversation/interaction done? Can I close the door? What if I cut you off because you weren't done is that rude? If you don't say thank you I don't know if I acted correctly. Did I say the right thing? Did I act excited or happy enough?
I get you want people to turn a blind eye because your child may have issues and it's difficult to deal with but it's the exact same for people on the other side. You can preach being understanding all you like but if you aren't acting the same to the people on the other side nothings going to change for the better for your child or for that other person.
tl;dr
Saying thank you for your child can go a long way.
Not saying thank you is like not saying bye before hanging up the phone.