Mini rant. I put something about loving Fred on my Facebook, as we had picked him up from the vets... And my brother just replied with 'poor Bodhi'... And someone else jumped on it too. I haven't made it public on my Facebook about Fred's op for LOTS of reasons, but it really irked me. He's been laid on the floor in lots if pain and groggy from the anaesthetic I don't have a favourite, but Fred is 8 months old and we've been worried for the last 2 months about him... I take lots of pics of him as he's growing and I have LITERALLY 1000s of Bodhi (she's 8 this year remember!!!!!). And he's new and novel and its exciting! Of course I'm going to rave about him he's gorgeous! It doesn't mean I don't love Bodhi! She's perfect Just annoyed me that I'd have to justify myself..... Not sure if I'm just being over sensitive!