no , because each child's learning capabilities are different.
all would happen would frustrate the kids who have a difficult time as it is and make the ones whom learn easier to fly through there work and lord it over the other ones.
of course if i only had 1 kid then maybe , but with this group it is not fair. or even right.
all would happen would frustrate the kids who have a difficult time as it is and make the ones whom learn easier to fly through there work and lord it over the other ones.
of course if i only had 1 kid then maybe , but with this group it is not fair. or even right.
Actually, I forgot about it but my grandma would give us money for grades. It was a tiny deal to me because I easily got good grades with no effort. My brother struggled and still didnt often get "good" grades.
It is not something I would do as honeslty, I hate the concept of "grades" and find then arbitrary at best, actually damaging at worse. Grades tell you absolutely nothing about how and what the child is learning
It is not something I would do as honeslty, I hate the concept of "grades" and find then arbitrary at best, actually damaging at worse. Grades tell you absolutely nothing about how and what the child is learning
I wouldn't pay for grades. heck I wouldn't pay for doing chores either... at least not the basic chores. extra things like volunteering to mow the lawn or shovel the driveway maybe but not sweeping and doing the dishes. those are things that are expected in a household and all family members need to contribute to because it's the right thing to do... not because you get paid for them
The same with grades. I wouldn't pay for grades. Hannah will be expected to do her VERY best and sometimes your "very best" is not always A+ material. I wouldn't punish her for trying as HARD as she could and then not coming up with an A. When I was in school I tried... LORD how I tried but A's were just not int he cards for me no matter how hard I tried. The way they taught in school just didn't work for me. It was more confusing to me than anything and I really struggled. I think there may have been a bit of dyslexia at play there because one of the things I struggled with the MOST was the concept of left and right and in math I REALLY struggled with rounding numbers up and down... simplest thing but the way my brain worked and the way it was taught it was a totally lost concept on me. it wasn't until one of the hockey players that we had boarding with us sat down with me and explained it in a different way that it really suddenly clicked and made sense to me.
What is more important to me is that Hannah try her very best in everything she does. not that she be successful at everything she ever does. there are just going to be some things she isn't good at and THAT IS OK! I will not punish her for not being good at something or for struggling with something and if there is something she doesn't understand I will do my very best to teach it a different way until we find what works for her.
Now that's not to say she'll never be rewarded. She absolutely will if she tries her best but it's not going to be something she'll come to EXPECT. It will be a nice surprise like "hey you did a GREAT job on that project... why don't we go out for ice cream to celebrate" or something like that or "Thank you for taking the intiative to do that extra work. here is a few extra bucks on your allowance" but I want her to take pride in her work and not just do it for the reward. I want her pride to be her reward