OK...so I live in a very rural area...not too many neighbors. The few I have, I've liked....til recently. I have one neighbor that (the husband) insists on coming over here........griping about EVERYONE....almost daily. He doesn't stop there....he goes on and on and on and on about where he works...........seems his world is filled with a$$holes. Geez. So, after 4 years.........I become unglued...I can't stand him anymore. I vent...big time.....to his wife. HE reads the email. OK...those of you who know me know I tend to vent my mind. So, I sent this horrid email about him to the wife (and she is a really good friend)...he reads it. (duh, how dumb am I.....my hubby wouldn't dream of reading my email..but I've learned something here). She is still my friend.........but obviously he is now consumed with some hatred for me. I then apologized...big time...I just want neighborly friendship here. I told her how sorry I was that I hurt his feelings..etc. But...really....why do I have to be the person he vents to?? Why do I have to be someone that amuses someone's husband???? I put up with him when others wouldn't dream of listening...I was his best friend....he just crossed a line. Sooooooooooo much griping, b**ching about everyone...I can't help it...I lost it. So, there's a part of me that is totally thrilled that I never have to see him again.........then there is the part of me that feels so bad.......I didn't want to hurt his feelings....I guess I was trying to get him to stop..or listen to himself...or some stupid thing. So, I ask you......what would you have done in this situation. Here's a guy...comes over CONSTANTLY (and it's a hike to my house)...procedes to complain.....B**CH about EVERYONE...all the time...even his wife (my friend) What would you do..how would you have handled it??? I just wanted his wife to keep him home....I didn't want him around here anymore. OK...I'm trying NOT to be bummed on a Friday....my sweet Dave and I LOVE Fridays..........LOL Opinions????? How can there be a problem with someone that doesn't even live close to me??? Let me tell you.......I don't trust him for a second. I've got some nasty bad vibes about him. hmmmm.....ok, I'll stop.