Okay, so Marlowe is a porn star. He was neutered the day I picked him up from the shelter but judging from the size of his wang, and the size of the man-purse that was left..... My friends when we first got him all had to come over and gawk, especially because with all the testosterone still coursing through his system for a few weeks after his neuter, he was very very quick to put the red rocket on the launch pad, for pretty much any reason. It's disconcertingly large. It hits the back of his front legs. It took *forever* for his sad little flap to go away. It finally did though. I probably took close to a year though. With Conrad, it was very quick to go away because he's just a wee little guy in that department, and a lot furrier too. In a couple months, he didn't have his flap anymore.