Yall know about my thread from the other day. TJ and I have talked about it so much we are blue, and not to get into a whole big mess of emotions I will keep this short and sweet. I need to be happy. He wants me to be happy, even if that means moving back to my dad's. He doesn't want to move away from his family and I completely and totally respect that. I would never want him to do that. But I don't want to be happy moving back to dad's and him be miserable, we both know and realize this. I love TJ, he treats me so good, but with everything else going on and what my HEART is telling me, I can't deny it. Problem is... I don't know HOW to do it. That part is stumping me. It will crush TJ and I both. I will be hurt and sad for a while but I'd rather be that way for a little while then be that way for God knows how long. Any ideas/advice? I am crying typing this because I realize what I need to do and its killing me, but I am so glad TJ respects me enough to want me to be happy no matter what.