I need help! I think someone might be raping my dog.

Do you think my dog is being raped?

  • yes

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  • no

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  • you're crazy

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  • if yes how do I go on about it. Is impossible to keep my dog away from him.

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Mireya

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okay so this is not the first time that I think this person might be raping my dog. It started because my dog apperantly had diahrea and pooped all over my mom's wooden floor. Everyone was upset, and yelling at him but I said he had never done such a thing, he has never once pooped on my bed. He sleeps with me almost every night, if he needs to pee and I'm asleep he pees by the door, he always has pooped/peed by doors if ppl don't open the door for him, but for him to just do anything other than by a door is out of his character, also he tends to hold it until I wake up. Anyways first time it happened I just couldn't understand, though of what he ate, everything but nothing was out of the ordinary. Then it happens again!!! This time my dog was with me the whole morning and I let him out to do his business he was on the bed, all was fine, then this two people come home, my sis and my dad, my sister came and changed clothes, and then she went out to say hi to my mom, and all I hear is uggh it stinks he did it again, and I heard my mom trying to clean up and all, and telling me I should just leave him outside if he can't control his bladder, but again I stood up for my dog, and I said he has been with me all day and he hasn't done anything if he had diahrea then he would of done it at least once when he was with me. Anyways time passed by, I noticed my dog would have really bad nightmares, he would toss and toss so bad that it scared me. I also noticed that all of a sudden he would follow me everywhere. Even when I would go the restroom, he became really meek, and sometimes would not want to eat anything. Anyways when thinking I though sometimes when I have anal w my partner I get this symptom which made me believe that it could be my dad. Again time passed and he hasn't had diahrea but just yesterday I was eating and realized my dog wasn't with me then I went to look for him and saw my dad in just boxers w a phone coming out of the restroom and he gave me a weird look, I went to my room and saw my dog scooting his butt (he has never done this in front of me) I thought maybe he had to go poop, I got up an tried to go outside, he didn't follow me, I opened the door and showed him I was outside and still he stayed there looking at me, this kept on until finally I got him to come outside. He didn't poop but when I sat down and he was barking at something and had his tail up I realized he had this big red bump right next to his anus, and his anus looked open like he pooped, he didn't have that red bump before. Now today I went to the restroom and I though my dad was asleep on the sofa, I left my dog in my room, but when I came back I quickly checked him and although the swelling has gone down (sine I been applying heating pads every 6 hours) but his anus looked again wide open. I do not want to be thinking this about my dad. I really love my dog, and his behaviour has just changed so much, he used to be really playful, my mom says is because he has gotten old, but there's times he will just go like a corner by himself, and the thought that someone could be harming him just makes me really sad and extremely furious. If your wondering, yes my dad is the only male in the house. Also one time he was gonna take a shower, and he came (My dog was laying between my legs asleep) my dad came and reached for him and I'm like what are you doing, and he was like I'm going to take him a shower, and I don't know why but I literally said, I'm not letting you take him with you. Then he tried getting the other dog which was with my mom but he wanted to stay with my mom so my mom said leave him alone. I really need advice from outsiders, because if I told anyone else from the family they will think I'm crazy.
 

Mireya

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What I mean by it's impossible to keep away from my dad, is that the other members of the family think I'm being possessive with my dog or rude for no reason to my dad.
 
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That is the most horrible thing I've ever heard! If you think this is really true you need to get this dog away from him. He needs new owners and the rapist needs to be in jail.
 

TheDeena

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I believe you have brought this up before and I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU KEEP WRITING AND NOT TAKING YOUR DOG TO A VET. There is no reason why your dog should be peeing and pooping by the door. Yes, he might need his anal glands squeezed or have an infection in his anus. In any event, if you really cared for your pet you would be rushing him to the vet and he would be able to tell you what is going on. If he is being sexually abused you need to surrender the dog or move out, you are NOT protecting your animal and in effect are as bad as your father if he is in fact abusing him.
 

Ceehajin

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Please take your dog to the vet and have his genitals assessed and diagnosed. You are torturing yourself and your animal when you can get a true diagnosis from a licensed professional. Expect to shelve out $100-200. Contrary to what you believe, you are in control of this situation. Warn your dad to stay away from the dog and look him directly in the eyes if the vet confirms your fears. The next step would be to surrender your dog to a family friend or a no kill shelter. Your dog is your responsibility and if you dont have the means to move out, you at least have the ability to rehome him. I'm sorry that you have to go through this.
 
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