When someone is 12 years old they can't make decisions like this without a parent approval. Now maybe some of your parents give you more freedom in making decisions. I know when I was 12.....my dog would have went to the vet when my parents said he would. Not because I said he would. You all really should be helping her to get permission and some help from her parents and not blaming her. In the end it is her parents to blame if the dog has not seen a vet yet. They are the ones that are responsible. JMO...from a mother of 3 kids and 3 dogs.