My boyfriend is a major loner. He is very quiet and doesn't talk much when we go out. I keep gently encouraging him to go out and make friends. We've only lived in the Kelowna area for four months but I have a network of friends already. I don't see them too often but I am very out going and friendly. I've brought him along on a few outings but he never talks which makes people think he's kind of weird and it can make social situations a bit uncomfortable. Well, he told me he thinks one of my friends is cute. He then added her on facebook and asked her to hangout. They both told me. I don't feel threatened by her at all I just cannot for the life of me understand WHY he wants to hangout with her as he has not talked to her directly in person. The only thing they have in common is they both smoke pot (I don't). I know no funny business will happen... but I'm kind of irritated he won't go make his OWN friends as dumb as that sounds. Him and I spend so much time together and I feel like that my friends are the rare time I can just talk unedited about whatever and not have him around (we are together 99% time of our spare time). It'd be different if they had a gay old time together but I know she has just said yes to be nice. I love spending time with him. Most of my time... but the rare time I want to go out it's nice to have people that are just my friends. This is really bothering me and I think I'm being a bit irrational in it. TLDR my boyfriend asked one of my friends to hangout who he hasn't spoken to directly at all and it's annoying me because we spend so much time together that I wish he would network for friends with other people. Not my existing friends.