My spouse is definitely my best friend, even when he comes home moody because he had a rough day at work LOL... In all honesty... I have never ever felt closer to a man in my life the way I feel with him. We can tell each other anything and we respect each other's interests, hobbies, etc. Money is very 50/50 in the way it's spent even though he's the only one earning most if not all of the income. I just earn a little here and there from side jobs, photo jobs, etc.
though I gotta say... spaghetti sounds awfully yummy right now