We were watching something lately and it made me wonder if that's the way most people do it.........cause ya, we don't! LOL For those of you who have or had inlaws: Do you do things together as one BIG family? I mean like all the inlaws (his parents & her parents) all together for Christmas, Thanksgiving, or just any kind of get together? Events for the kids? Birthdays, graduations, sports, etc........sure. But really, anything else? No. We go to his family's house at a certain time for a holiday, my family's house at a different set time for that holiday, and I can't imagine EVERYONE celabrating at the same house/time! How do you guys work family/inlaw times and events? Together or separate?