I gave over wardrobe control to Hannah at an early age because it wasn't worth the headache. her rules were 1) it has to be weather appropriate and 2) you can't mix and match shoes and 3) if you want to wear a dress you MUST wear shorts or pants underneath until you learn to stop lifting it and stop rolling around on the ground in dresses lol. Otherwise... have at it. it actually worked out nicely because it gave her a sense that she had control over SOMETHING in her life but we definitely went out in some weird outfits lol. Like a camoflauge hat, a tie die shirt, pink tutu and red cowgirl boots lol.