thanks all of you for your messages - I'm glad that I miss him - it makes me feel that I wanted him for the right reasons but gave him up for the right reasons too
Just a quick note for those of you who offered me such support when I had a breakdown a few weeks ago after bringing my puppy home...
After much soul searching we returned Rogan to the breeder and whilst we can all recognise that the dog was by no means the cause of my breakdown it was...
We have just got back from returning puppy to his breeder, the kids were really brave and good and have been so supportive of me. I started to feel a little better as soon as the decision had been made. The breeder was a bit rude to me when we dropped him off but then phoned me to apologise 5...
After much thought and consideration and long talk with my husband and kids we have decided that the pup will go back to the breeder tomorrow (friday). The crisis counselling centre called me today and agree that if this is what I feel will help me to get better then this is what I need to do...
Unfortunately the counselling process is lengthy here - I have been referred and have to wait for them to contact me before we can even start. Whilst I am sitting here up to my eyeballs in valium the world seems an easier place but I know thats only temporary. My eldest child can see where I'm...
I talked to the breeder and she would be happy to have him back but thinks I will regret it - and she may be right. My friend thinks that if I remove him from the situation it just leaves me open to the same thing happening again with something else (ANYTHING else) and that I need to confront my...
I would like all of yours advice as dog owners. I have not improved since I first started this post. I have notslept for 5 days and have seen the doctor who is referring me to the Community Mental Health Team for counselling. She has aso put me on diazepam to sedate me. Even know I probably know...
Things are much the same at the mo, my mum and dad are here at the mo as my husband isn't home til later this evening. I'm still trying to get my head around thinking that it isn't the puppy thats the cause of the problem - once I can do that I think i will be getting somewhere
Thanks for...
Thank you so much - I have put a picture onto my profile but it doesn't seem to be coming on to my posts ???
Hopefully the counsellor will get in touch with me in the next couple of days and then I can make some progress