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Dogdragoness

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RAWR! They built a oil something or other place about a 1/4 mile from our house and I swear to god if I hear one more asshole come or leave work at 12 am or later with their music blaring so loud in their ****ing car that I can hear it in my bedroom then I am going to complain and make them put uo a noise retaining wall.

I like what the oil has done for the economy here but I hate all the crime and **** it's brought, also. We now have to lock both sides of our gate and I no longer feel safe when I am alone at the property I hate it.
 

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People. Family. Ugh. I hate having to admit it when days are just not good at all. Today was not a good day. I want to punch things.
 
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I have the most obnoxious twinge in my back and it hurts and it won't go away. It's not even really painful, just extremely irritating. urggggh
 

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I understand that he works full time.
I understand that when he gets home from work he'd rather not clean.
I understand that he falls apart without me being here.

But holy crap every time I come here the place is just a little more disgusting.
He hasn't cleaned the toilet since I moved out in August. I just did it now because I couldn't stand it any more.
There's little beard hairs surrounding the sink and counter. Cleaned that up too.
The kitchen looks like a war zone. Using all my will power to stop myself.

His idea of clean is having the dishes done and his clothes off the floor.

I am terrified of moving back in with him in May. Sure it will be a new apartment, but I'm scared that he'd rather live like a slob.
 

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I understand that he works full time.
I understand that when he gets home from work he'd rather not clean.
I understand that he falls apart without me being here.

But holy crap every time I come here the place is just a little more disgusting.
He hasn't cleaned the toilet since I moved out in August. I just did it now because I couldn't stand it any more.
There's little beard hairs surrounding the sink and counter. Cleaned that up too.
The kitchen looks like a war zone. Using all my will power to stop myself.

His idea of clean is having the dishes done and his clothes off the floor.

I am terrified of moving back in with him in May. Sure it will be a new apartment, but I'm scared that he'd rather live like a slob.
He could set a timer for 15-20 minutes every day and do nothing but clean during that time. Helps us a lot. :)
 

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I understand that he works full time.
I understand that when he gets home from work he'd rather not clean.
I understand that he falls apart without me being here.

But holy crap every time I come here the place is just a little more disgusting.
He hasn't cleaned the toilet since I moved out in August. I just did it now because I couldn't stand it any more.
There's little beard hairs surrounding the sink and counter. Cleaned that up too.
The kitchen looks like a war zone. Using all my will power to stop myself.

His idea of clean is having the dishes done and his clothes off the floor.

I am terrified of moving back in with him in May. Sure it will be a new apartment, but I'm scared that he'd rather live like a slob.
My fiancee is not as clean as I am (and I dont expect him to be, I am like super anal OCD LOL), but I DO expect him to at least make an effort to help me and not treat me like housekeeping at a hotel. He used to do this, and I told him that, for my sanity's sake, I could not and would not live with me if thats the way it was going to be. So he started making an effort.
 

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He could set a timer for 15-20 minutes every day and do nothing but clean during that time. Helps us a lot. :)
I will definitely bring that up to him! Seems like something he could stick with.

My fiancee is not as clean as I am (and I dont expect him to be, I am like super anal OCD LOL), but I DO expect him to at least make an effort to help me and not treat me like housekeeping at a hotel. He used to do this, and I told him that, for my sanity's sake, I could not and would not live with me if thats the way it was going to be. So he started making an effort.
We had a good system at our previous apartment. Though things like cleaning the toilet and cleaning the sinks seem to escape him... I'm hoping that with a new apartment he will remember the old system we had.

I think it's just the apartment he's in now is such an utter crap hole to begin with that he doesn't see the point in cleaning it to make it semi-livable. When we moved in there was mouse/rat feces in all of the cupboards & the oven, floors hadn't been cleaned, scribbles all over the wall etc. It was disgusting, but we tidied it up, it was never truly clean but it was certainly much cleaner than it is now and was.
 

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Yesterday I ate this Evol chicken quesadilla. I thought it was gluten free but I took it out of the box and was like "man, this is really convincing. Like REALLY convincing. It looks like a flour tortilla." And I was eating it like "this is REALLY good, like REALLY good." But I didn't think to go back and check the box.

I wasn't feeling very good after that but I went back to work, and my co-worker told me another one of my co-workers went home saying she had thrown up in the bathroom. I was thinking "OMG, if she tracked in some kind of stomach bug and I get sick I am going to be PISSED." Felt like crap all afternoon, but I never did throw up... but I haven't been feeling good for the last several days - my back and neck have been wildly out of alignment, which in turn has made me have horrible headaches and just plain feeling awful, so I figured that's what was going on.


I went home for lunch again today and took the box out of the freezer thinking "oh maybe I'll eat the other one of those." NOPE NOPE NOPE I GRABBED THE WRONG ONE. It is not the gluten free one after all. And now I know why I was feeling so crappy.
Guess I will be letting my mom eat that or something because NOPE NOPE NOPE.
 

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Yesterday I ate this Evol chicken quesadilla. I thought it was gluten free but I took it out of the box and was like "man, this is really convincing. Like REALLY convincing. It looks like a flour tortilla." And I was eating it like "this is REALLY good, like REALLY good." But I didn't think to go back and check the box.

I wasn't feeling very good after that but I went back to work, and my co-worker told me another one of my co-workers went home saying she had thrown up in the bathroom. I was thinking "OMG, if she tracked in some kind of stomach bug and I get sick I am going to be PISSED." Felt like crap all afternoon, but I never did throw up... but I haven't been feeling good for the last several days - my back and neck have been wildly out of alignment, which in turn has made me have horrible headaches and just plain feeling awful, so I figured that's what was going on.


I went home for lunch again today and took the box out of the freezer thinking "oh maybe I'll eat the other one of those." NOPE NOPE NOPE I GRABBED THE WRONG ONE. It is not the gluten free one after all. And now I know why I was feeling so crappy.
Guess I will be letting my mom eat that or something because NOPE NOPE NOPE.
I have a friend who is gluten intolerant and it totally sucks how much stuff she cant eat :( esp if she goes out to eat, they have to stick to buffets mostly so she can choose her food. I am glad I am not gluten intolerant because I LOVE bread and all that.
 

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Today started off so well, and now it is just shittastic.

My younger sister is making up conversations we never had in order to excuse her stupid decisions, nailing yet hammer im the coffin that is our relationship.

The whole Sherman fiasco.

I miss my husband and would give anything to just be able to sit with him right now.

And now I found out my best friend's grandfather is im the hospital and dying.

I never should have gotten out of bed this morning.
 

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My mother abandoned our family in favor of her alcohol three weeks ago.

I fell Sunday night and severely sprained my ankle, in an air cast for a month.

I'm really bad on crutches.

My work hours are kind of limited because of this whole ankle fiasco. I need money.

Shadow had another surgery yesterday to fix her eye, she's getting old enough that putting her under scares me.

I'm really freaked out about the future, more so than usual.
 

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I suddenly got a really weird red/purple rash all over my back. It's huge and appeared within a matter of hours and it's not going away. O_O Scared me, took a pic and sent it to David, it scared him too (that's when I know is scary looking lol). I went to the doc's (couldn't see my normal doc) and they said "eh probably just a contact allergic reaction" and I'm all "but I haven't used anything new and I always wear my jacket when out cause it's cold!" and they are all "i'm sure it's nothing....". They gave me a steroid cream, which I'm not using cause they said it would go away on it's own. However, I'm pretty sure I might be patient zero for the zombie apocalypse. :popcorn: lol
 

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Hugs to all of you having some rough days lately! I have a lot going really wrong in life right now and a lot going really right and I'm just trying to keep a level head through it without too many mood swings or much expectation. I'm really lucky to have some awesome new and old friends in my life lately. And some very healthy, happy dogs.
 

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If you're mournful... just don't read this. My emotional outbursts are probably not healthy.

I just have to throw my angersad somewhere because I'm so angrysad that the most devastating things happen to the kindest people. This isn't even a vent, it's a goddamn lament but I have nowhere else to put it and really didn't want to post it in Nilly's thread which deserves the positive swing it's taken. Also I am so particularly rustled that I am the master of the run on sentence and truly don't care about grammar today.

But like... What the ****.

She's been on my mind so much since I heard the news, and for some reason in the back of my head I always felt like she'd survive this and see Carter grow up. Because why wouldn't she? Because everything I saw from her on Chaz indicated that she was nothing short of delightful, warm-hearted, polite and just NICE. No matter who she was talking to, she was always so ****ing nice and HOW could a world so full of shitty people ever afford to lose one of the nice ones?

This is ALWAYS how it goes. The most horrible things happen to the people who better the world around them just by being in it.

How ****ing unfair.

The kind of life you strive to live seems to have no impact on the life you get.

Seriously universe what the actual ****.

:cry:
 

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If you're mournful... just don't read this. My emotional outbursts are probably not healthy.

I just have to throw my angersad somewhere because I'm so angrysad that the most devastating things happen to the kindest people. This isn't even a vent, it's a goddamn lament but I have nowhere else to put it and really didn't want to post it in Nilly's thread which deserves the positive swing it's taken. Also I am so particularly rustled that I am the master of the run on sentence and truly don't care about grammar today.

But like... What the ****.

She's been on my mind so much since I heard the news, and for some reason in the back of my head I always felt like she'd survive this and see Carter grow up. Because why wouldn't she? Because everything I saw from her on Chaz indicated that she was nothing short of delightful, warm-hearted, polite and just NICE. No matter who she was talking to, she was always so ****ing nice and HOW could a world so full of shitty people ever afford to lose one of the nice ones?

This is ALWAYS how it goes. The most horrible things happen to the people who better the world around them just by being in it.

How ****ing unfair.

The kind of life you strive to live seems to have no impact on the life you get.

Seriously universe what the actual ****.

:cry:
I have the same thoughts and feelings. Bloody ****ing hell.
 

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