I am moving in with a close friend, we will call him Bob.
Bob & I have been friends since freshman year of college, we like to geek out together, it was romantic for a little while early on but hasn't been since.
Recently, he got transfered to Boston, I am looking to move & live here and we decided we would live together! Which is great, except his girlfriend (who lives a few towns away) isn't too happy.. she wants to meet me and she isn't too happy with the whole thing.
so...
1) any advice on living with a boy? /any roommate?
and
2) If you were dating a person, would you CARE that they lived with a person of the oposite sex?
I just don't get it. My BF shares a lovely 3 bedroom condo with a girl and a guy and I DO NOT CARE. I mean, he is around girls all the time.. if I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him. You know? So I just don't get it.. but he wants me to be more understanding and like, have dinner with her and meet her and put her mind at ease.. I just think the whole thing is ridiculous.
Anyway...we get along, we are friends, have similar schedules/ideas, great house rules already agreed on.. but any advice on living with him? lol I've never lived with a boy or anyone else before! well, long term anyway.
Any general roommate advice?
Bob & I have been friends since freshman year of college, we like to geek out together, it was romantic for a little while early on but hasn't been since.
Recently, he got transfered to Boston, I am looking to move & live here and we decided we would live together! Which is great, except his girlfriend (who lives a few towns away) isn't too happy.. she wants to meet me and she isn't too happy with the whole thing.
so...
1) any advice on living with a boy? /any roommate?
and
2) If you were dating a person, would you CARE that they lived with a person of the oposite sex?
I just don't get it. My BF shares a lovely 3 bedroom condo with a girl and a guy and I DO NOT CARE. I mean, he is around girls all the time.. if I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him. You know? So I just don't get it.. but he wants me to be more understanding and like, have dinner with her and meet her and put her mind at ease.. I just think the whole thing is ridiculous.
Anyway...we get along, we are friends, have similar schedules/ideas, great house rules already agreed on.. but any advice on living with him? lol I've never lived with a boy or anyone else before! well, long term anyway.
Any general roommate advice?