The Venting Thread

Well, I propose she delete me on FB, put me on ignore here, and stick around. I have no personal issue with her and it upsets me to see her, or anyone, leave the forum because of a discussion which was civil yet a hot button.

People opposing your view aren't exactly out there to hurt you. I can get very heated about things and I can get equally hurt. Heck, I did leave the pit bull forums over holier than thou training opinions and slanderous infighting which plays a part in destroying the breed. That said I don't think, thus far, this forum has ever crossed over into such a harmful area of forum use.

My vent would be people making an effort to make others feel guilty for speaking their minds, no matter how wrong the opposition feels they are. Sometimes "just shut up, I'm right" is the air on forums and I really appreciate that this is one that doesn't take kindly to such impressions.

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

Can you just break contact from him? Its really the only way for the person not over it to get over it.

Friends with exs doesn't work for all. It just can't. at least not after a long long break.

Sorry your having to go through this.

So, after dealing with the moving people today (one of which was a MAJOR A HOLE. As in, calling us names behind our backs and making everything difficult A HOLE)......on top of dealing with a freaked out Zander and moving, and organizing, and cleaning, and running this way and running that way, and NO SLEEP WHAT SO EVER.

I dropped Jin off at the gym and decided I was going to CVS for more cold medicine. 30 seconds after getting off base, I realize I don't have my purse with me. No ID, no licence, no NOTHING. So I drive back and go to the visitors center for a pass. Security Forces (military police) lived up to their a-hole reputation and laughed in my face and told me to start walking.

It's THIRTY ****ING DEGREES. I have a headcold and sinus infection from hell, I've been on my feet the last WEEK cleaning and moving and organizing. A 30 minute walk to the house DOES NOT SOUND FUN.

So I call Jin, stupidly thinking he would surely stop his workout with his workout chick, and answer his friggin phone. Nope. Texted. Nothing. NOTHING. (It's been nearly an hour now, and still NOTHING.)

My pass expired within an hour (it is supposed to be free-use for 24 hours. More of SF laughing in my face), so I ended up walking.

So I'm now sitting in the house fuming after a walk home.

Adrianne, I really, really don't think you're the only reason, or even a big part of the reason. Not by a long shot. It's the whole disrespectful, unlawful, I-do-what-I-want attitude of SO MANY people in the thread.

Adrianne, I really, really don't think you're the only reason, or even a big part of the reason. Not by a long shot. It's the whole disrespectful, unlawful, I-do-what-I-want attitude of SO MANY people in the thread.

I didn't see that attitude.

In an hour, Matt and I are seeing a relationship counsellor at his begging and pleading. The counsellor will tell him the same thing I have told him endlessly (that it's over) and I will have to watch his heart break for the umpteenth time.

Denial is making this really, really rough.

For the record, you have not yet disgusted me