This is a really interesting thread! I just read the entire thing... loved seeing all of the pictures.
I met my current boyfriend of 6 months when I was working in retail at Target last winterish for all of 4 months... My friend got me a job there and was trying to hook me up with any guy I'd go for pretty much (he knew I was in an unhappy relationship)... there was a nice crew of guys there. This one guy just stood out... but he wasn't the type to rush into ANYTHING. We worked together quite a bit and I would come in painfully trying to make our boss pair us up without being obvious.
Finally, a mutual friend who was interested in me (but I was not interested in him whatsoever) gave me the guy's number when I played some "I don't believe you really did that, let me ask Brian!" game with him. We started texting casually, a little flirting at work. We took all of our breaks together and became pretty good friends. He quit and I didn't talk to him for a few weeks, then he randomly texted me, saying we should hang out and watch movies sometime.
So we hung out that Saturday, and there was just a spark I couldn't ignore... I had been in a relationship for 3, almost 4 years with a guy from highschool. Awesome guy, the spark just wasn't there anymore and I knew I needed to move on. So, that Sunday (april fool's day, if I remember correctly; I was laughed at and told numerous times that we in fact did NOT break up) I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and was independent for the first time in my life... Brian and I started hanging out just about every day, had sleepovers (though no sex was involved; he was very religious at the time and didn't like sleeping with people he wasn't entirely committed to) and just in general became best friends. That was through April, May, and June of 2011. In July my lease was up and I moved in with him at his cousin's house. Halfway through July (on my birthday!) he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend and the rest is history. We ended up couch hopping and living in a hotel for the rest of the summer when things went south with his cousin, then I bought my house where we're living now in... September?
We've known each other for just over a year and a few more months will mark the time that we've "been together" even though we weren't actually dating. He hated girls when we met and didn't think he was ever actually going to date anyone again, let alone marry anyone. An ex-marine, he was applying for special forces positions to get back into the service and didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. Apparently I was good enough to take that place.
He's a special guy, for sure.
There aren't many good pictures of us...
This was taken while we were on vacation last fall in the outer banks
this was on the 4x4 beach in Corolla, NC
And this is at a family reunion