Stephy's midnight musings/updates

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Unless it was a sting operation for prostitution, there was no reason to leave Stephy's DETAILED information on WHERE and WHEN she was selling herself.

Really, you mean to tell me that it was necessary to leave that information out there? I'm purely talking about the information that she gave. IF she was telling the truth, ANYONE could've found her with that information.
The only truth I know so far is there is a dog named KATALIN who really exists. She posted a picture of a celebrity STEPHY TANG taken dog knows when or where and claimed it to be HER... yeah. SO whether her prostitution gig is true or not, i still think that her post about prostituting, actually the thread itself should've been DELETED the minute it was posted.
 
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I think a little break needs to be given to the mods here. They can't be everywhere, they can't make hasty decisions and they've always tried very hard to walk the line of moderated but not over moderated.

I don't always agree with what they've done, what they've moderated or what they haven't. But I respect that I think they try very hard to be fair, objective and honest. And I imagine being abandoned without any real over seeing admin has made things ten times hard.

That added on top of this all being very very.....strange I can see why it wasn't immediately moderated.
 

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I haven't read this entire thread but I'm working on it. So apologies if I repeat something someone else said.

But what I think is quite telling is the fact that Stephy hasn't been back to this thread in a long while to justify or argue or anything (not saying she has to) It's like she's sitting back and watching it go wild.

Which is something that strikes me as a little unhealthy.
 

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Thanks for the vote of confidence, Linds.

And for what it's worth, I think we could/should have removed that personal information sooner. I can't speak for the other moderators, but I know that I would have made an edit as soon as I became aware of it. The thing is, I didn't see it. Do you know how many times that post was reported? Zero. Not a single person who saw it and clutched their chest dramatically saying, "Oh my goodness! For her own safety, that information should be removed pronto" reported that (or any) post in that thread. I dug through my emails, even in the "trash" and "spam" folders and the only reported posts we have from those dates are about spam.
 

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Is there a major motion picture in the works yet?

Haven't you seen sybil?



The only thing I think mods should report is suicidal statements, no matter how vague they may be. We have done it on other forums with very little info.
 

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Thanks for the vote of confidence, Linds.

And for what it's worth, I think we could/should have removed that personal information sooner. I can't speak for the other moderators, but I know that I would have made an edit as soon as I became aware of it. The thing is, I didn't see it. Do you know how many times that post was reported? Zero. Not a single person who saw it and clutched their chest dramatically saying, "Oh my goodness! For her own safety, that information should be removed pronto" reported that (or any) post in that thread. I dug through my emails, even in the "trash" and "spam" folders and the only reported posts we have from those dates are about spam.
Mods like you restore my faith to humanity. And yes, I guess it should've been reported, but the thing is, posters are expecting the mod to take actions, since its one heated thread.
 
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I haven't read this entire thread but I'm working on it. So apologies if I repeat something someone else said.

But what I think is quite telling is the fact that Stephy hasn't been back to this thread in a long while to justify or argue or anything (not saying she has to) It's like she's sitting back and watching it go wild.

Which is something that strikes me as a little unhealthy.
Perhaps she's taken Romy's advice about not replying -- and is following Romy's example?
 
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Katalin's breeder is very well aware of her current situation - we spoke on a weekly basis at the beginning (early this year), which turned into monthly etc - as she is a busy lady with a life to run as well; not to say that she doesn't care about her dogs - but she has enough confidence/trust in the clients whom she lets her puppies go home with to not have to be constantly calling them up or fretting about the wellbeing of the dogs. She has always been kept up to date about the status of Katalin and is very comfortable with everything so far. Katalin is not co-owned - but as a courtesy on both sides we offer updates, resources, and help to one another as we can (the breeder and myself).

Great thanks again to Romy, Xandra and Doberluv for all their help and support with this issue and my greatest concern/anxiety throughout this ordeal: the wellbeing and safety of my dog.

Also thanks again greatly to the many kind hearted, generous, and supportive Chazzers who's messages of encouragement, affection, and good counsel have helped me tremendously.

And it's posts like this that are extremely stressful, unhelpful, and misleading. You're implying that I repeatedly dodged a bunch of questions when that's not at all the case. I answered VERY DIRECTLY the one time it was asked, which was that I had drafted a letter. After that I sent it. I didn't post an update until now because as far as I'd seen nobody had asked.

I'm feeling pretty insulted right now, and am done posting about this stuff. People can theorize all they want, it's really not worth the blood pressure spikes to engage in this right now.
I would like to thank everyone greatly for the interest/entertainment my threads have brought. Play, fight, laugh, mock, accuse - whatever; make it into whatever you wish. The people that matter to me on here and the people involved in the situation understand the matter fully and that is enough for me <3.
 

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Mods like you restore my faith to humanity. And yes, I guess it should've been reported, but the thing is, posters are expecting the mod to take actions, since its one heated thread.
Agreed. I know there were at least a couple of mods who were active in that thread.
 

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Mods like you restore my faith to humanity. And yes, I guess it should've been reported, but the thing is, posters are expecting the mod to take actions, since its one heated thread.
Thanks. The thing is, though, we cannot be in every thread, heated or not.

If in doubt, report it.

And it was another moderator who eventually removed the information, too, so I'm not the only one who feels that way.
 

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Thanks. The thing is, though, we cannot be in every thread, heated or not.

If in doubt, report it.

And it was another moderator who eventually removed the information, too, so I'm not the only one who feels that way.
hence the "you don't know all that is going on" comment. :cool:
 

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