I don't really 'like' my bra straps showing.. they are usually obnoxiously colored, they don't go with the outfit, sometimes they run away down my shoulder creating an annoyance.
but. let me just say something here.. I HATE people saying things to me like "Oh honey, careful, your bra strap is showing..don't want anybody seeing that" in that whispering scandalized voice like it's the most horrifying thing to see. and ESPECIALLY when I'm wrangling dogs or throwing tennis balls or running or just basically doing ANYTHING. I'm moving my body, a bra strap might show. I really do not care.
I have boobs.
I wear a bra.
I don't LIKE my straps to show.. but my bra isn't some super secret thing that I use to hold up my super secret boobs and seeing them will unveil the SUPER GIRLY SECRET that , no, my boobs don't just sit up like that on their own.
If my bra strap pops out while I'm wearing a dress or when someone is taking pictures during something formal or something..fine, mention it.
otherwise? leave me and my bra straps be!